- A man took to social media to share his story of a bad relationship he had once
- He explained why one should never go out with someone who is insecure
- Tweeps then started to share their own tales of insecure partners
A man has taken to social media to explain to others why they should never date someone who has insecurities.
Insecurities in a relationship can cause a lot of trouble and unnecessary friction. And in severe cases it can lead to abuse.
One man has firsthand experience of what it is like to be in a relationship with someone who is not secure with themselves.
Kudzai, or @Mr_SuitUp, took to his Twitter account to share what happened to him when he dated a girl who was insecure.
“Quick story .....Made the mistake once of dating an insecure girl. I was young, never did again.First sign was the constant "you and your little groupies", this was before we dated. I did question why she wanted to date me if she was so convinced that I had groupies”, he wrote.
Kudzai added she was the one who pushed for a relationship, something he found strange since she clearly did no trust him and his “groupies”.
However, he started to like her and ended up asking her out on a date.
The “Hip Hop Astrologer” added after a while of keeping things casual, they started dating and he did everything a good boyfriend would do, which included staying faithful.
Kudzai said he even pulled off all the stops of their one-month anniversary and everything went great- until the next morning.
“I woke up to an sms from her. She was breaking up with me because she said she felt she couldn't trust me”, he explained.
“I couldn't believe it The reason I didn't want to date was because of her trust issues and then when we dated I played my part but still got dumped because of the very same trust issues. That one time was enough for me I've never dated an insecure person since.The End”, he ended the series of post.
Tweeps could relate to Kudzai’s story and soon they shared their own stories.
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