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According to her doctors, it would be difficult for her to conceive because she had fibroid, her fallopian tubes were tilted and her hormones were imbalanced but God came through for her by giving her a bouncing baby girl.
A Nigerian woman identified as Sandra Harrison has shared the story of her journey to giving birth to her first child after six years of marriage. The lady revealed that she tried so hard that she had over nineteen miscarriages, Briefly.co.za learned.
According to Harrison, she stopped counting her miscarriages after the nineteenth tragedy. She revealed that she had visited medical doctors and even traditional doctors for a way to give birth to a healthy baby but nothing happened.
Harrison who shared her story on Facebook, talked about what she went through. She expressed that people gossiped about her, she had to deal with insults and people even accused her of being a witch.
She further noted that some friends and family members who were supposed to be at her side and support her at the moment of her troubles, were the source of gossip and insults that she faced.
Read her story below:
"Medical doctors in owerri said I had fibroid, my fallopian tubes were tilted and that my hormones were imbalanced. After trying and failing with hospitals and medical doctors, I had to try traditional doctors, herbalists if u may, and of cos they had their own reports. Ukwu oku, ehie afor, and the rest of them. Herbs (ogu igbo) took me to different parts of the east, aba, mbaise, anambra, orlu, ngwa, just to mention a few.
It's not like I wasn't getting pregnant, I was, but I kept loosing the pregnancies. I stopped counting when I had lost over 19 babies (19 miscarriages), because after all, it was not an achievement, I told myself there was no point keeping records.
I took dru9s and drank concoctions till I was almost shapeless, people kept telling me "Sandra ure getting fat oh, u better watch it", without knowing what I was going thru, how would I have told them that it was the hormonal dru9s that was making me fat.
A lot of things were said, a lot of gossip went out, I heard them all but still smiled with the people that said them, after all, they were "friends", and some family.
One said she went with me to where I did the abortion that cost me my womb, another said I have plans of leaving my husband that's why I didn't want to get pregnant for him, another said I should keep buying cars, instead of building my home and filling it up with children, another said God has not given me my own kids because I don't appreciate other people's kids, another said i'm eating the children in my womb through witchcraft, another said God will not bless me with my own kids because I have a bad character. I was called barren, a man, a wood, infertile, a witch....... the list of names and gossip is endless.
I prayed, oh believe you me, I prayed, I fasted, I cried, I went to different churches, I was in the choir, I cleaned the church on Saturdays. To a large extent I was faithful to God, yet nothing happened, and I kept asking God why he hated me so much.
But when it was time, it was time. God showed up, He proved himself strong, he showed me He didn't hate me.
After 6 years of marriage, 6 years of waiting, 6 years of praying, 6 years of crying, 6 years of fasting, 6 years of mockery, 6 years if gossip, 6 years of pain, God decided to dry my late night tears with this beautiful miracle, MY BABY GIRL.
I call her CHIZARAMEKPERE. KENDRA. OLAOLUWA. FAVOUR. ONYEMACHI. Welcome MY PRINCESS."
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