- Jespher Nyaboke lost her mother at birth and suffered the wrath of a horrible foster parent
- She was left to grow up in a lecture hall alongside her aunt
- After all her years of hardship, she graduated with a Masters degree
After losing her mother during childbirth, Jespher Nyaboke was left under the care of a foster mother, who kept mistreating her to the extent that she lost hearing in one of her ears when she was 10.
At age 10, Jespher Nyaboke lost the ability to hear in one ear, owing to severe maltreatment from her aunt, who was assigned to care for her after Jespher lost her mother during childbirth.
Fearing for her life, Nyaboke thought it wise to escape from the house to seek refuge wherever she could feel safer.
"I was about 10 when I decided that anywhere, any place, would be better. I ran away from home, boarding a bus to Kisii town. A compassionate stranger spotted me and adopted me. He took me in with his family and began educating me," she disclosed.
Born in the small village of Kiong'ongi in Nyamir, Kenya, Jespher managed to continue her primary education and proceeded to Kebabe Girl's High School and sat for her Kenya Certificate of Secondary Education (KCSE) exams in 2002.
With her certificate, she wanted to enroll in a nursing training school, but before the journey to becoming a nurse could start, the guardian who was taking care of her died mysteriously.
Jespher had always wanted to become a nurse because she loved how they appeared neat and smart.
''I dreamt of becoming a nurse. I admired how they wore spotlessly clean, white coats. Just when I was beginning to map out my dream, the guardian died. It was suspected poisoning. My hopes were dimmed in one stroke of misfortune," she narrated.
Despite the unexpected death of her guardian, Nyaboke did not give up.
She resorted to doing menial jobs to fend for herself, and it was during the struggle that she bumped into a friend of hers one day who gave her a copy of Mount Kenya University’s prospectus in 2009.
"In it were diploma courses in nursing and medical laboratory. But the university was in Thika town, more than 300 kilometres from where I was. I didn’t have money for bus fare, let alone the tuition fees. I applied for a constituency bursary," she revealed.
Out of excitement, Nyaboke used her savings from the petty jobs to buy items contained in the prospectus to enroll in the university.
However, upon arrival at Thika town, school authorities told her that she could only obtain admission number if she paid the required deposit.
Fortunately, she approached an official in the school’s admission department who gave her the money to pay.
And that was not the end of the poor lady’s woes.
Jespher did not have money to either pay for hostel or rent and accommodation outside campus.
Left with nearly no choice, she had to sleep in the university's lecture halls at night, using the tables as her makeshift bed.
“When I started my diploma course in Medical Laboratory at MKU Thika Campus in 2009, I used to sleep in class. I am not talking about the occasional dozing off during lectures. Literally using the lecture room as my bedroom. I had no money to pay for accommodation at the hostels, or rent out a room," she recounted.
Reports say she would freshen up at the ablution block, take a sweet for breakfast and settle in class every morning without anybody knowing.
"When the hunger became too much, I opened up to a close friend who took my plight to MKU Students Association Cabinet. The Cabinet wrote to the university Board of Directors Chairman Simon Gicharu who was very sympathetic," Nyaboke said.
She disclosed that the university offered her a full scholarship in 2014 to enable her graduate with a degree in Medical Laboratory.
After school, the university was generous enough to offer her employment at the science laboratories where she worked and raised funds to pursue her Master's degree in the same course.
Jespher Nyaboke defines true resilience, and also affirms despite the challenges life may throw at you, if you are determined, you can attain any feat you set your mind to.
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