- A Twitter user recently revealed the problems his married friend shared with him
- According to the post, he advised his friend not to get married for the wrong reasons and that he should always watch out for the kind of family he marries into
- Social media users have since reacted to the post
When it comes to marriages, many people have attested that hardly any marriage is perfect, and this story currently trending on social media proves this to be true yet again.
Identified as @this_Sivana_sef on Twitter, he recently took to the platform to share a few regrets his married friend currently has and the problems he is facing in his marriage. He shared four regrets, one of them being that he married a girl from a broken home and the fact that she was pregnant was the only reason he married her.
He wrote: "Was talking to a friend yesterday bout his marriage and he pointed out few points he's regretting right now. 1. He said, watch the family of the girl in question, if her mother and father aren't together there's a strong possibility she's gonna be jumping around."
"2. Pregnancy made him marry his wife and so he warned me, don't let pregnancy hold you down. If you not gonna marry her, don't get her pregnant. 3. Make sure you get all you want before the kids start coming cuz if not fulfilled before they come, you'll be stuck for life.
"4. Look closely at the mother of your gf or wife to be, she will reflect her exact characteristics and pattern of life and I see this to be one huge factor. In all he may have some point and one thing is for sure we can't know it all. Kings and Queens look before you leap."
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In most societies, it is often expected that couple be married before they start living together. However, not everyone follows these expectations as some couples move in together during their dating period.
For such couples, a Twitter user identified as @AfamDeluxo has some advice for them. Sharing a story of a man who was made to marry the corpse of his girlfriend who died during childbirth, he urged people to hold at least an introduction ceremony before moving in together.
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