- Zandisile Nhlapho made it known that no one has the right to tell her how she should mourn
- Taking to social media with a heartbreaking message, Zandisile reflected on the time she and Bob spent together
- After seeing the post some felt that Zandisile needed to take a step back as her and Bob’s relationship had been over for a while
Zandisile Nhlapho made it known that no one has the right to tell her how she should mourn the death of her ex-fiancé Bob Mabena. Some things just need to be left alone.
Everyone handles crisis situations differently. There is no right or wrong way to process the loss of life nor does anyone have the right to comment on how one does this.
Briefly.co.za learnt that Zandisile has received major criticism for allegedly taking an inappropriate approach to Bob’s passing. Some feel she has made it about their relationship and not about the loss.
Taking to social media with a heartbreaking message, Zandisile reflected on the time she and Bob spent together. While things did not end as they expected, there were good times.
"The passion in this relationship, even way after we parted. We loved too hard & fought just as hard. You could literally cut passion with a knife. I didn’t know these pics existed. I wondered & asked where he got them from but then again, that was Bob for you. “I’m a nigga packed with surprises,” he said. I wonder who the photographer was. I still can’t believe it, he’s really really gone?! Wow."
After seeing the post some felt that Zandisile needed to take a step back as her and Bob’s relationship had been over for a while and it was not her place to post what she did. Zandisile made her post without comments so peeps took to Twitter to have their say.
“Just saw Zandis post about Bob's passing away... Ummmm angazi guys.. Wasn't he married?... Thoughts?”
“We can't sympathize and give support to Bob Mabena's wife, Zandi nhlapho is now posting as if they were still dating ayiiii.”
“Yep, it was ex wife Zandile Nzalo who fought with current wife publicly...He was only ever engaged to Zandisile Nhlapho.”
Briefly.co.za had previously reported that legendary radio presenter Bob Mabena lost his grandmother to Covid-19. The Power FM presenter revealed that his granny had gone to the hospital to treat a lung infection when she contracted the deadly virus.
Bob, who said Mzansi hospitals are not ready to deal with the coronavirus, revealed that his granny died just three days after contracting the disease.
Bob's peers in the music industry took to his comment section and sent him messages of condolences. Melanie Bala commented: "Oh no Bob. So sorry for your loss."
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