Over the years several cheating cases have been reported on social media as many have wondered if they should go ahead with marriage or not.
Radio and TV presenter Toke Makinwa has taken to her Twitter handle to share a story of how one of her friends sent her a long message on how she caught her husband cheating. The mystery lady disclosed that she saw her death certificate in her husband’s car.
That was not the end of the tale, the lady who urgently needs the best advice also disclosed that her husband earlier promised to relocate with her to the United States once their first child finished primary school but she was surprised to find he was planning on making the trip with another woman.
The post reads: “I am in a very sad mood, I feel used and rejected, and I feel so terrible. I am married with four kids and I always felt I am married to the best man in the world. I am a registered nurse in a government hospital here in Lagos, while he is a dentist. Our plan as always been that when our first child finishes primary school we will relocate to the US. About a year ago my hubby started dating one lady in a late 30s, I saw her messages and challenged him and he apologized and I forgave him but to my surprise, he came home late on Friday night and slept. Very early on Saturday, I drove his car out to refill gas and saw an envelope, inside was is passport with US visa on it and the lady’s own too with US visa. I saw the form he used to fill his visa application. In the form he said his wife was late and my death certificate was attached and his wedding certificate with the said lady was attached to it. In the form he wrote out all our children’s names but he claimed their mum was late. I made a photocopy of all the documents and returned the envelope back but I nearly ran mad. He observed that I have been so cold since and has been asking what’s the matter, please what can I do, what should I do, how do I accept this type of wickedness and traitor attitude. Please mummies advice me.”
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How frightening and upsetting that must be to discover.
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