Ayanda Ncwane: Widow Drops Some Pearls of Wisdom for Women
- Media personality Ayanda Ncwane shares some informative gems with her followers recently
- The reality TV star spoke out against shaming women for wanting to move on after relationships end
- Many South African social media users agreed with her musings
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Ayanda Ncwane used International Women’s Day to spread a very important message to women. The media personality, who lost her husband a few years ago, advised women to not be afraid to find love again, regardless of their age and history.
She also encouraged women to not let negative talk by in-laws or the older generation keep them down.
Posing a beautiful picture of herself on Instagram, Ncwane shared her wisdom in the caption"
"Happy International Women's Day MBOKODO . It’s so sad that billions of women, young, old, rich , poor, white, black, straight, gay, etc are still living under such circumstances as unequal to their male counterparts. SIS, It is a personal decision to take back your power and your voice.
"Never abandon YOU when you get married. Never settle for nonsense in a relationship, never compromise yourself worth regardless of the opportunity. Older women remove the word BEKEZELA when you advise women in difficult situations especially in troubled marriages/ relationships.
"Mostly women, don’t doubt your power and abilities to bounce back!!! God has given you too much to offer the world, refuse to remain trapped in the invisible cage called ABANTU BAZOTHINI. Remember you have a right to speak up when the cup of tea you ordered is not being served.
"You have a right to choose YOU over your anything that destroys your self esteem. You absolutely have a right to remarry/ find love after divorce, being widowed, after having 5 children, at the age of 50 etc. If our male counterparts can did it, so we can do it!"
Her post resonated with many of her followers who shared their thoughts. Instagram user Lungiedlaminih said:
"True."
tash99 said:
"Madam."
tumilinx said:
"Queen."
Source: Twitter
Meanwhile, Briefly.co.za previously reported that reality star Ayanda Ncwane is making waves on social media again as viewers are learning more about her on The Real Housewives of Durban (RHOD). Ayanda says that she's ready to have another child, she's just waiting for Mr Right to make it happen.
In the latest episode of the reality series, Ayanda opened up to her brother Phupho Gumede about a blind date she was going on. Ayanda revealed that she's ready to have a baby and she wants it to happen before she turns 40.
Ayanda also addressed the rumours about her being pregnant and said that she would only have a baby when she's in a committed relationship. Ayanda made it clear that she's not going to have a child just for the sake of it.
Ayanda was married to the late gospel artist Sfiso Ncwane and has stayed single since he passed away. It seems as though she's ready to move on but only if it's with the right person.
The reality television star and socialite has made it into the heart of Mzansi because of her cool, calm and collected behaviour. Her fans are hoping that she does find the right man eventually.
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Source: Briefly News
