Mzansi discuss the fallen ones: Men who have lost themselves, their families, and friends to ungrateful women

Mzansi discuss the fallen ones: Men who have lost themselves, their families, and friends to ungrateful women

  • The people of Mzansi shared their feelings regarding a post which claimed many men had lost a lot to ungrateful women
  • Twitter account @AdvoBarryRoux shared the statement, claiming men put a lot on the line and lose it all
  • While some agreed, others felt it goes both ways and that society is to blame for relationships being so complicated

Mjolo is a tricky business! A debate broke out in the comment section of a Tweet which claimed many men had lost greatly to ungrateful women…, which is true.

Unhappy woman and hurt man
Some men put their all into a woman to end up alone, unhappy, and even in debt. Image: Getty Images
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Only God will understand why some men, and even women, give of themselves wholeheartedly to the wrong person but not to the right one.

Widely followed Twitter account @AdvoBarryRoux made a post in which they highlighted how man unfortunate men had given far too much to women who do not even care. A hard pill to swallow for some.

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“A lot of Men have lost themselves trying to make ungrateful women happy.”

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The people of Mzansi weigh in on the touch subject

Well, this goes for both genders, and peeps made that clear. Many people believe that men have been conditioned to think that material items will make women happy and it is how they should show their love. However, inside of love and loyalty, a lot of men are getting played and in debt.

Take a look at what some had to say:

@future1_the said:

“Eish, I wish my friend can come across this tweet, he has gone as far as helping furnish this chick apartment, but he has never set his foot in. He doesn’t even know how the furniture looks like inside the apartment.”

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@kingscelo_05 said:

“Society made black men believe that in order to be happy make women happy which it's shouldn't be like that, make yourself happy Gents, put yourself 1st, let her meet a happy man who know his worth, don't invest kwingane yakomunye umuzi okudlul wena.”

@BlackChina_SA said:

“The best thing about losing yourself is that you come back wiser and stronger.”

@justnyoo said:

“Almost every one of us as men we willing to leave family and friends to please a woman. Is it wrong? Is it right? I don't know, personal choice that one.”

@justChinks

is that you can never satisfy a woman unless she has decided to be satisfied. Ridiculous no it's not”

@Sokwalisa_Nonku said:

Mjolo: Girlfriend says she spent the day with bae but he has no idea

In related news, Briefly News reported that a confused South African man has just gone online to share an interesting post regarding his girlfriend. The man says his lover recently bragged about spending good times with him.

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@_Luyolo_Mpiti_ says the lady has posted an update as far as their relationship is concerned, but it seems to be news to him. The account holder explains that the only option was to ask his mother if he had ever left the family house on that day.

The post reads:

“My girlfriend just posted 'Having a good day with my boyfriend.' I’m asking my moms for the 10th time gore nkile ka tswa mo jarteng na?”

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Denika Herbst (Editor) Denika Herbst is a Human Interest writer at Briefly News. She is also an Industrial Sociologist with a master's degree in Industrial Organisational and Labour Studies from the University of Kwa-Zulu Natal, which she completed in 2020. She is now a PhD candidate at UKZN. Denika has over five years of experience writing for Briefly News (joined in 2018), and a short time writing for The South African. You can reach her via: denika.herbst@briefly.co.za.

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