“There’s Three Sides”: SA Woman Breaks Silence on Cheating Rumours and Divorce from American Husband

“There’s Three Sides”: SA Woman Breaks Silence on Cheating Rumours and Divorce from American Husband

  • Sako, a South African woman living in the US, confirmed her divorce from her American husband Dalton in a viral TikTok video
  • She addressed cheating rumours after a stranger spotted her at a hotel with a man who turned out to be her security guard
  • Sako revealed the breakdown began in February and that she made the decision to leave Dalton in July
SA woman Sako confirms divorce from American husband, addresses cheating claims
Sako addressed cheating allegations and divorce. Image: sako.aint.worried/TikTok and dalton.aint.worried/Facebook
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A South African woman known online as @Sako.ain't.worried went viral on 23 August 2026 after posting a candid video addressing her split from her American husband, Dalton, and hitting back at cheating claims that had been circulating online. Her post comes after Dalton broke his silence on her absence. Sako confirmed the divorce in the clip, telling her followers plainly:

"Yes, it's true. Dalton and I are getting a divorce. We're no longer together."

She said things began to unravel in February, and that she made the difficult decision to leave in July. She acknowledged that Dalton filed for divorce first, but added:

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"There are three sides to every story. And you've only heard one."

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The hotel photo that sparked cheating rumours

Much of the backlash Sako faced stemmed from a stranger who spotted her at a hotel with a man and posted about it online. She set the record straight, explaining the man was her security guard, known as Big Red, who Dalton himself had hired. She said he had simply been helping her carry luggage into the hotel lobby, in public, and nothing more.

"For everyone who thinks I'm having an affair with this man or that I cheated on Dalton, I'm not," she said. "Big Red is my security guard, and he always will be because I pay him to be so I can feel safe."

She also pushed back against suggestions that being seen out in public meant she had abandoned her child, saying that going through a divorce does not mean a mother stops living her life.

Sako chose not to share every detail but made clear she has her own truth and her own proof. She ended the video with a message directed at those who had mocked her background:

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"This incompetent South African immigrant girl who can't speak English has found her inner peace. And I'm never looking back. Ever."

View the TikTok video below:

Viewers rally behind Sako

The video drew over 206,000 likes and more than 9,000 comments, with many viewers expressing support and raising further questions about the situation:

@Meghan Black wrote:

"Commenting so Sako makes more $ than Dalton. Lol 🫶🏼"

@milkmarie_thevirgin asked:

"'South African immigrant girl who can't speak English' 😳 did he say that to you? Who said that?"

@Toni Mitchell🫶🏾 said:

"What really pissed me off is the fact that he let everybody drag your name through the mud, calling you a hoe, when he knew the truth. No, he didn't badmouth you to the internet, but he allowed other people to do so, and that's what I don't like. 😳😳"

@Dougieboy27 commented:

"I understood everything not said, queen"

@Mesha noted:

"Did anybody notice she said everything hasn't been the same since February? Dalton was charged with domestic violence in February."

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@Eina Melendez added:

"Finding out she was only 18 and he was in his 30s when they met changes everything tbh..."

@Delta wrote:

"You all thinking she's innocent, but Dalton has full custody so far. Let that sink in"

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Tendani Mungoni Tendani Mungoni is a Human Interest Writer at Briefly News. (joined in April 2026) She is a Film and Television graduate from the University of the Witwatersrand (2020). She began her journalism career as a Multimedia Journalist at Media24’s YOU Magazine. She was a Writer at TheSoul Publishing and Music in Africa. To reach her, contact: tendani.mungoni@briefly.co.za.