"This is So Wholesome": Mzansi Man Raves About His Wife in Heartwarming TikTok Video, SA Loves It

"This is So Wholesome": Mzansi Man Raves About His Wife in Heartwarming TikTok Video, SA Loves It

  • One South African gent flexed his relationship with his wife in a TikTok video making rounds online
  • The footage grabbed the attention of many, amassing loads of views along with thousands of likes and comments
  • The online community reacted as they flooded the comments section, expressing their thoughts
  • Briefly News spoke to psychologist and relationship expert Penny Holburn on why it is important to praise your partner in a relationship

One guy flexed his relationship in a TikTok video making rounds online, which caused a massive buzz.

A TikTok video shows a man raving about his wife.
A man raved about being under his wife's control in a TikTok video. Image: @gxalibeshe
Source: TikTok

Man raves about being under wife's control

The young man who uploaded the video under the handle @gxalibeshe shows the man and his wife sitting on the floor playing a game together while enjoying each other's company. The clip sparked a widespread online reaction.

@gxalibeshe's clip caught the attention of many, gathering loads of views along with thousands of likes and comments within a few hours of its publication.

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While taking to TikTok, the gent gushed over his relationship, saying:

"Kwaze kwamnandi ukuganwa umuntu onhliziyonye naye umnangi wakhe yimi,nami umngani wami uyena," in English "It's nice to have someone who understands you, someone who gets you. My person is you, and your person is me."

Take a look at the heartwarming video below:

Importance of praising your partner in a relationship

Briefly News spoke to psychologist and relationship expert Penny Holburn about the importance of praising your partner in a relationship. The psychologist said people would like to be in a relationship with someone who makes them feel good about themselves.

"You cannot keep criticising someone or making them feel small and stupid and expect them to like being with you. You need to give praise to a partner to help them feel valued and capable. But you don’t want to overdo it."

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Penny added:

"The praise must be genuine and something the other person is proud of. Too much praise is going to seem fake and ungenuine, and when you do truly want to praise your partner, it will mean less if you do it all the time."

Social media users react to TikTok video

The online community had a lot to say as they flooded the comments section expressing their thoughts, while some simply gushed over the pair, saying:

Thembisile Sthebe said:

"Let this love locate me."

Nolwazi Okababa Khoza Ndaba wrote:

"This is love."

Silindile Dlamini wrote:

"Wow bhuti wami , you have wisdom."

Gabbz gushed over the couple, saying:

"This is so wholesome."

Moon commented:

"Beautiful."

Marncaneh shared:

"Content or Not lo mdlalo bathi awudlalwa egceken sekunzima kakhulu seniwudlala endlin Cc Bathi idala isifo ekhaya le nto."

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Source: Briefly News

Authors:
Johana Mukandila avatar

Johana Mukandila (Human Interest Editor) Johana Tshidibi Mukandila has been a Human Interest Reporter at Briefly News since 2023. She holds a national diploma in journalism from the Cape Peninsula University Of Technology (2023). She has worked at the United Nations High Commissioner for Refugees, PAICTA, BONA Magazine and Albella Music Production. She is currently furthering her education in journalism at the CPUT. She has passed a set of trainings from Google News Initiative. Reach her at johana.mukandila@briefly.co.za

Penny Holburn avatar

Penny Holburn (Founder of Penny Holburn Coaching) Penny Holburn is a life, career and business coach running her own coaching business since 2010. She has spent 20 years as a consultant in psychological assessment, organisational development, personal and business change, leadership development, coaching and counselling. Penny has majors in psychology and industrial psychology and an MSc Cum Laude in psychology and has completed a Senior Management Development Programme through Wits Business School.