Pam Andrews Reveals How She Caught Her First Husband Cheating While 7 Months Pregnant

Published 19 Oct 2026 at 2:15 PM

by Gloria Masia

3 min read

Rhythm City former actress Pam Andrews shared the painful story of how she discovered her first husband was unfaithful while she was heavily pregnant
A voicemail accidentally sent to Pam exposed her French ex-husband kissing another woman while she recovered alone at a Johannesburg hotel
Just two weeks after Pam moved out, she made a shocking discovery at the family home that left her in complete disbelief

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The media personality opened up about the emotional impact of learning about her husband's betrayal while expecting a baby — Pam Andrews recalled discovering her first husband's infidelity during one of the most vulnerable periods of her pregnancy. Image: Pam Andrews
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Rhythm City former actress Pam Andrews has opened up about one of the darkest periods of her life in a candid makeup vlog, recounting how she discovered her first husband's infidelity while seven months pregnant. The selfie-style confession, filmed at home with a fireplace playing on a screen behind her, had followers completely gripped from start to finish.

Andrews explained that she and her ex-husband, a French engineer, met in late 2007 while both were holidaying in Mozambique. Both were in relationships at the time, but the connection was undeniable. After returning to Johannesburg, they broke things off with their respective partners and officially became a couple in 2008, eventually moving in together and marrying after only about seven months of knowing each other.

The voicemail that changed everything

By the time Pam Andrews fell pregnant, cracks had already begun to show. She described escalating arguments, her husband's growing resentment of her fame and earnings as an actress, and his increasingly dismissive attitude towards her career on Rhythm City. When she was seven months pregnant and suffering through a particularly rough night of illness, her husband chose to go out with friends rather than stay home. Andrews checked herself into the Rosebank Hotel, a favourite escape of hers during their fights.

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After stepping out of the shower, she noticed a voicemail from her husband. What she heard shattered her: it was an accidental message of him kissing and speaking intimately to another woman.

"I played it over and over and over again because I had to be sure," she said. "You know your partner's voice."

Blow after blow

The following morning, she confronted him at home. His response was cold and dismissive, offering no real explanation. Andrews packed her bags and left. Over the next two weeks, he never once called to check on her or the baby. She eventually secured her own flat, hired a live-in helper, and began building a life independently.

Followers flooded the comments with support

@i_am_sinalo wrote:

"This broke my heart and kept on getting worse. You didn't deserve that."

@renettemoses added:

"I simply have so much respect for you, meisie."

@a_girl_and_her_girl_ said:

"I'm so glad you survived that."

@fcfortune recalled:

"I remember when you met him. You were so in love you couldn't stop talking about him."

@leisljoy commented:

"Wow Pam, you went through a lot! Glad you're happy with your son now."

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