“She Thought She Could Change Him”: Woman Flirts With Foreign Prisoner Online and Marries Him

“She Thought She Could Change Him”: Woman Flirts With Foreign Prisoner Online and Marries Him

  • A woman on TikTok does not get why the world is bashing her relationship with a foreign convict
  • The lady expressed her concerns about people discussing her relationship all over the world
  • Netizens collectively agreed that the woman's decision to marry an inmate from abroad whom she barely knew was a silly and dangerous move

A woman on TikTok expressed her concerns about the world judging her for marrying a foreign prisoner. The woman started by flirting with the jailbird and paying him a prison visit before marrying him.

American woman marries prisoner abroad after flirting online
An American woman married a foreign prisoner based on his attractive appearance. Image: @lorra_s
Source: TikTok

Woman flirts with convicted criminal online and marries him

People usually celebrate bizarre relationships as it is said 'Love Is Blind', but a woman from the United States might have taken that saying a little too far.  Lorra Stewart started by flirting with a foreign prisoner online.

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Their feelings for each other grew, and she booked a flight to visit him in prison. The pair then realised they loved each other and decided to make it official by getting married.

They married in prison and shared a clip on TikTok, where the world bashed them for making an irrational decision based on physical attraction. Lorra recently created a clip expressing annoyance at the world's involvement in her business.

She captioned her clip:

"How come people are so judgmental when it comes to others but never when it‘s about themselves."

Watch the video below:

Netizens react to women marrying foreign prisoners after flirting online 

The world did not react positively to the woman's decision to marry a prisoner from abroad based on his looks. Numerous news outlets reported the shocking news.

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To better understand why Lorra would marry a convicted jailbird, Briefly News reached out to s Clinical Psychologist, Vuyolwethu Tuluma who shared six reasons why women are attracted to toxic men and stay in abusive relationships:

  • Economic inequality
  • PTSD
  • Family expectations
  • Past experiences
  • Having children with the partner

Tuluma also highlighted:

“To add to this existing research I have found that a traumatic upbringing can contribute to women staying in toxic relationships. For example one was raised in a household that had an abusive father, they then get into a relationship that has an abusive partner. It becomes a cycle, one stays because of the hope that the partner will change.
"On a positive note, the South African government signed the national council on GBV and femicide bill into law on the 24th of May 2024. These laws include controlling and bullying behaviours, it also makes provisions for protecting people in engagements, dating and in customary relationships. It further regulates protection orders in response to domestic violence.”

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Netizens gathered under Lorra's  comments section to discuss her odd relationship:

@Miss. Andry felt sorry for the lady:

"Girl, I’m gonna hold your hand whenever I say this. But in six weeks, you literally do not know that man."

@Mangomimosa understands that this is just a phase:

"When marrying a prisoner becomes your whole personality."

@Piper D. Dash thought Lorra should have kept quiet:

"If you don’t tell ppl your business no one will know it, so know one can talk about it."

@Kleets did not understand the logic behind the lady's decision:

"Why would you do this?"

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Chuma Nontsele (Editor) Chuma Nontsele is a human interest journalist for Briefly News. Nontsele holds a diploma in journalism and started her career working at Daily Maverick as a news reporter. Later, she ventured into lifestyle. You can reach her at: chuma.nontsele@briefly.co.za

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