"She Was Made a Prisoner": SA Chimes In as Woman Moving to Pakistan With Her Husband Asks for Advice

• A South African woman announced her move to Pakistan with her husband, sparking widespread online discussion
• The video gained rapid traction on TikTok, with users offering a mix of support, caution and personal experiences
• The responses highlighted risks of cross-cultural marriages and the need for careful planning when relocating

A South African woman has sparked intense discussion online after sharing a video announcing that she is relocating to Pakistan with her husband and asking social media users for advice.

In the clip, which has been making the rounds on social platforms, the woman who goes by the TikTok handle @maureenmahlako is seen driving off with her husband, who is originally from Pakistan.

Speaking candidly, she explained that she would be moving from South Africa to Pakistan to start a new chapter of her life and asked followers to share guidance, tips and personal experiences.

The video quickly gained traction, with hundreds of users flooding the comments section with mixed reactions, ranging from supportive well-wishes to serious warnings. Some encouraged her to embrace the journey with caution, while others shared alarming stories and practical safety advice.

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One user, Lazy_bagle, urged the woman to take precautions with her travel documents, suggesting that she keep backup identification and remain in close contact with family.

"Be smart and strong. Plan in silence. Let your family in on your happenings when you can," the user advised, adding that she should always have a way back if things took a turn for the worse.

Another commenter, Anisa Alli, shared a deeply concerning personal account, claiming that a relative had faced abuse and confinement after moving to Pakistan with her partner.

"She was made a prisoner… all money and passport taken away."

The user wrote, warning the woman to prioritise her safety. Adding another perspective, Samra Anwar, who identified herself as a mixed South African-Pakistani individual who grew up in Pakistan, offered practical advice. She encouraged the woman to keep her documents and cash secure, maintain independence, and remain vigilant, even within her marriage.

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While some users criticised the fear-driven responses, others noted that the advice reflected genuine concern. The discussion has since opened up broader conversations about cross-cultural marriages, relocation risks, and the importance of preparedness when moving abroad.

As the video shared by the TikTok user @maureenmahlako on 14 December 2025 continued to circulate, many South Africans remained divided, with some wishing @maureenmahlako happiness and others urging her to proceed with caution.

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The online community shared its thoughts on the South African woman’s move, with many reacting with mixed feelings.

Its_Sammie said:

"Man can change, especially when they see their parents."

Aurelian expressed:

"If you lose those documents and ur passport, you're ain't coming back💔🥀✌️."

Precious Valerie commented:

"Yoh Sthandwa, you brave hle, 💔 these people change and act like they don't know you, just be ready for anything, talking from experience, especially the things they buy you yoh, ke control fela, however, all best and if you changed religion for him, it's gonna be turmoil, yet his not changing anything for you??? just saying and think really hard about it."

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Source: Briefly News