“Poor Men Must Stay Away”: Man Sparks Debate After Buying R50k Sofa for His Lady

“Poor Men Must Stay Away”: Man Sparks Debate After Buying R50k Sofa for His Lady

  • A local businessman has social media buzzing after suggesting all "poor men must stay away from women"
  • The opinionated man made the remarks after having purchased almost R50 000 worth of furniture for his lady
  • Mzansi headed to the comments section and shared their very mixed reactions to the social media post

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A local man has social media buzzing after suggesting poor men should just generally stay away from women. The opinionated man made the remarks after a busy shopping day with his lady, spending close to R50 000 on the furniture she wanted for the home.

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A local man has social media buzzing after suggesting that "poor men should stay away from women." Images: Jabu Ngwenya/Facebook
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Heading online, Jabu Ngwenya shared the controversial remarks.

"You really can't be a man who doesn't have money but wants a wife. Without money, you cannot be loved by you're going to be tolerated," he started the social media rant.

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Ngwenya went on to share that he felt all women have a desire for money not because they are gold diggers, but want to see what they have nurtured grow into something more than what it is.

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He went on to share that he had bought his woman lots of new furniture simply because she had asked for it.

"I've never seen my Queen so happy. A man must always provide. All broke and poor men must stay away from women," he ended.

Naturally, the opinionated post sparked heated reactions from social media users. Check out some of the mixed reactions below:

Simphiwe Mbau said:

"She will still cheat on you with broke men."

Morgan Jill Junior Kasambo said:

"That's one of the African men mentality... sick men mentality...t hey believe a woman loves them on condition that a man should provide. Is that how love is supposed to be? Anyway nice stuff."

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Karabo Molefe said:

"Not every woman is like your woman, some women are independent, they can afford to pay for their own couches."

Thandaza Mkhize said:

"Manje we must not date because we are broke kahle bhuti."

If he baths 3 times a day, don’t marry him; real men don’t like it, lady says

In some more news from super opinionated people, Briefly News previously reported that a Ghanaian-Nigerian comedienne is making waves on social media with a tweet that has gotten the full support of some men.

In the tweet the comedienne with Twitter handle, @heiressjacinta is seen giving her fellow ladies advice on the kind of men they need not consider as marriage materials.

She advised ladies not to marry men who shower three times daily. The comedienne added that real men do not like bathing.

A publication by Harvard medical school seemed to be in agreement with the lady, particularly about how needless it is to bathe three times in general.

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According to the article, a daily shower may actually be bad for an individual's health.

Some of the reasons that were given

Bathing frequently would result in dry skin, which may allow bacteria and allergens to breach the barrier the skin is expected to provide results in skin infection.

Also, antibacterial soaps, according to the write-up, can kill off normal bacteria in that it would upset the microorganism balance of the skin and encourage the emergence of less friendly ones, resistant to antibiotics.

Finally, the immune system requires a certain amount of stimulation by normal microorganisms and dirt in order to produce protective antibodies.

@heiressjacinta probably had these reasons in mind, or it was just one of her jokes.

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