Lady Reveals Man Won’t Date Women with Children, Mzansi Claps Back

Lady Reveals Man Won’t Date Women with Children, Mzansi Claps Back

- A local woman has taken to social media to share her hilarious encounter with a man who says he won't date women who already have children

- The man expressed he could not be responsible for another man's child and so could not date the beautiful lady

- Mzansi definitely had mixed reactions and took to the comments section to share their thoughts on the hilarious incident

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A local mom has taken to social media to share her hilarious encounter with a man who says he won't date a woman with kids. @theeroseoflove told Twitter users a man had been wanting to ask her out but immediately backtracked once he found out she had a young child.

Lady Reveals Man Won’t Date Women with Children, Mzansi Claps Back
This local woman can't help laughing at one man's dating criteria. Images: Sethunya Salorato/Facebook
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She writes:

"A guy came to me yesterday and said do you have a child? I said yep... With a sad face... that's a bummer I want someone without a child. I laughed soo hard."

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She later added:

"My friend goes on to say why? The guy replies I want my first to be her first too. I don't want to take care of the firstborn. I was like but the firstborn has a father. And he says but still, I have to take care of her."

Mzansi Twitter users were definitely divided by the post with many men understanding the perspective of the local Romeo in question. Read some of their comments below:


"The thing is Batswana men would plainly say I don't want someone with a child and go on and impregnate someone and end up leaving them with a child. Or find you with one child and ask you for another one since they don't have one then dump again with 2 babies with different fathers."


"I understand what was going on in the guy's head. A woman with a child has a life-long relationship with her baby daddy, no matter how hard we may try to ignore the elephant in the house. The baby daddy may appear out of nowhere and cause commotion in the home."

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"Not all women. A serious and committed woman will never allow that to happen in her new relationship. Boundaries will always be there and very clear to rraagwe ngwana too."


"I will never date someone with a child, I would rather be single, I can't deal with a baby daddy."


"This is very fair though... they don’t want women with kids it is what it is."


"Or the very same person will have a child with someone else, ebe ba kgaogana and expect a girl with no child to accept his child. Kana koore life has no formula, santse a tla nna surprised. Le nna nka tshega."


"Are you for real?"


"Gone mam what do you guys want."

Meanwhile, Briefly News previously reported it's not a secret that South Africa has a high rate of single mothers. A young woman, who surely knows this, recently headed online to joke about how South African fathers run away from their children.

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Her joke came after a short clip of a small family which consisted of a father, a mother and their child was shared online. In the clip, the family stands together and then runs away from the child as a joke.

"In South Africa, the dads run and never come back," the young woman commented about the funny clip.

Local men did not like her comment and were soon sharing angry opinions. Read a few of their interesting thoughts below:

@mxovalova said:

"In South Africa, the child runs to look for the real father."

@Moeketsi_Styles sarcastically wrote:

"Khumbul'khaya haven't responded to your letters yet?"

@mememe79379913 said:

"Men assuming. The gender that ACTUALLY suffers from daddy issues and chooses to never heal from it. Masterpiece is that they actually go on to contribute to their children having daddy issues."

@kazma_molelekoa said:

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"Again in SA, a woman would shout until the father runs to not return."

@wavey_brandnew said:

"The runners caught feelings."

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