SA Man Plugs Woman Complaining About 35-Year-Old Bae’s Boys' Nights Out With Advice in TikTok Video
- A gent imparted some advice with a woman whose man is always going out with his friends
- She cried that boys' night out is an every-weekend occurrence and she wanted to know how to put an end to it
- The man's counsel opened a discussion about men leaving their partners at home to be with the guys
- The gent shared wisdom with Briefly News on what women should do when stuck in such a situation
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If you're tired of your man going out with the boys every weekend, the only way to solve him is to go out with the girls. This is the advice a gent gave to a woman who was gatvol of her 35-year-old bae always having boys' nights out and leaving her alone.
Netizens shared their stories and some are just crazy, showing how much of a pandemic this thing called mjolo is for South Africans.
Man gives woman tired of her boyfriend going out advice
@nemoniksaid posted a TikTok in response to one of his followers who asked him a question. The woman poured her heart out. She said that her man, who is five years shy of 40, expects her to understand when he wants to go out with the boys, and she doesn't get it. She even wanted to know if she was being too dramatic for not understanding the assignment.
Philani Mthembu gave her some beautiful words of wisdom. He assured her she was not being dramatic, which means the fellow does this often. He then set her straight and pointed out that she was too understanding of a girlfriend. He then gave her a tip:
Whenever he goes out, instead of waiting for him like an angel, she must go, and when he comes back, he must find the house empty. If she does this, he will never go out again. He then reminded her to stop being a supportive partner and tolerating this behaviour. Mjolo, neh?
Man tells Briefly News what men should also do
Philani shared more of his sage advice with Briefly News.
"It's not healthy always going out because if he goes out every weekend, when does he get time to be with his girlfriend? Women love quality time with their significant other. As a man, you need to tell her about going out in advance so she's aware that she shouldn't make plans with you and so she has time to make her own plans. also, you can't go out very weekend. That's just wrong.
"Boys' nights are good so you can spend quality time with your mates. But these nights cannot be happening every other weekend. sometimes during boys' night, some guys are out looking for women, so you need self-control as a guy in a relationship. Your phone must never be off during that time so your girlfriend can reach you," he added.
Watch the video here:
Mzansi responds to advice from gent
The responses from women who are going through the most were colourful.
Tabitha said:
"My husband and I once met at the door at 4 am and he never went out without me ever again."
MohlagoPrash had enough.
"35? I have a 40 year-old. Friday, Saturday and Sunday, ke boys' night. I'm on my exit plan."
Sthembilemkhize6 remarked:
"But boys' night out at the age of 35? The government can't longer fund his business ideas because he's officially old."
Just Pearl asked:
"What about him making plans with his boys, knowing we have plans for the same weekend?"
Fortunate M Lukhele added:
"Thank you so much for the advice, Bhut' Philani. I'll do that. I wanna see his reaction. I also understand too much."
Woman scolded by son for going to groove
In a similar story, Briefly News wrote about a woman whose child called her out for being addicted to groove.
The young man threw a tantrum after his mom returned from a night out, leaving netizens finished with his antics. They loved how feisty he was and how he did not back down until he got his point across.
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