South African Man Vents as Bae Cheats and Lies About His Death, Mzansi Reacts

• One guy was left devastated over his woman and he took to social media to express his frustration
• The gent revealed in his TikTok video how his lady cheated on him and told lies about him allegedly
• People were shocked by the guy's story as they took to the comments section to share their thoughts
• Briefly News spoke to relationship expert and Founder of Engaged Humans, Paula Quinsee, on the psychological effects of betrayal and extreme lies, like faking a death

One guy in South Africa opened up about his painful experience of being betrayed by his girlfriend.

Man vents as bae cheats and lies about his death

The gent expressed how he felt about the heartbreak while taking to his social media account under the handle @tshinetisealphavented.

@tshinetisealphavented revealed that not only did his bae cheat on him, but she also lied about his death, causing even more distress. He said the following while taking to his TikTok caption saying:

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"She didn't only cheat on me, she even told the guy I passed away. "

While the Vanda man is still dealing with the emotional fallout, from his woman the post quickly gained massive traction online gathering loads of views along with thousands of likes and comments.

Take a look at the clip.

Psychological effects of betrayal and extreme lies, like faking a death

While speaking to Briefly News relationship expert and Founder of Engaged Humans, Paula Quinsee shared the psychological effects of betrayal and extreme lies, like faking a death.

She expressed how betrayal, particularly one as extreme as being told your partner died when they cheated on you can have severe psychological consequences.

"It can become difficult to trust them again, especially future partners. It can cause emotional trauma similar to that of grief where the betrayed person can experience all the emotions ranging from denial, anger, and depression, to eventually accepting the situation before they can move on," the relationship expert explained.

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In severe circumstances, they may even suffer from symptoms of post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), which include anxiety, flashbacks, ongoing mental scenarios, and emotional numbness.

• Some people could get cynical or negative about relationships and love, or they might even wish to exact revenge for being betrayed and harmed, which is never a healthy choice.

"Healing takes time and in this situation requires professional help or therapy, having a strong support system in place and patience with oneself to process and work through this type of situation to not let it taint your future aspirations," she added.

SA reacts with mixed emotions

His venting on social media allowed others to offer their support and share their thoughts on the toxic relationship as peeps headed to the comments section.

Precious Lecrishar said:

"We need her as our acting President in Woman's fellowship."

iMambane expressed:

"Not everyone we date is alive."

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Xali wrote:

"She nailed it."

TMAN replied:

"Don't force your self bra admit that she is no longer yours and move on while u can still think positively that is part of life. How can she say you passed away."

Ntsako mukhombo commented:

"We are very proud of our sister."

Women who caught their men cheating

• Briefly News previously reported that a woman had the shock of her life after she found her boyfriend snuggled up in bed with his side chick, who was a friend.
• A woman's heart sank as she saw her boyfriend, hand-in-hand with another woman, strolling through the shopping mall.
• A woman in South Africa was seen in a TikTok video destroying her cheating boyfriend's iPhone.

Source: Briefly News