“Everyone Was Hugging Their Partners”: Marriage Conference Warms Hearts As SA Pities Cameraman

• A marriage and family therapist, Dr Bakhe Dlamini, shared a video of couples enjoying a marriage conference held at the Jesus Dome in Durban, showing partners holding each other
• The conference named "Recharge your Marriage" featured important topics like communication and trust, with Dr Dlamini encouraging couples to reconnect
• South Africans shared their reactions in the comment section, with some expressing joy for the attendees, while others asked about the single cameraman

A heartwarming video of couples reconnecting at a marriage conference has left South Africans feeling emotional. The footage was shared by content creator and marriage therapist @bakhe.dlamini on Monday during the second week of April 2025.

The video shows a fully attended marriage conference at the Jesus Dome in Durban. Dr Bakhe Dlamini, who is a marriage and family therapist, author and speaker, held what he described as a blast of a session where he spoke to couples about strengthening their relationships.

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Towards the end of his talk, Dr Dlamini and his wife demonstrated the power of physical connection by hugging each other on stage. They then encouraged all couples in attendance to do the same, resulting in a touching moment where partners embraced each other, rekindling the connection they first shared when they started their relationships.

The conference highlighted important themes like how communication between couples leads to intimacy, suggesting that men and their wives need to communicate openly, build trust, and nurture love within their relationships.

Briefly News spoke to mental health expert Jayshri Rangasamy regarding communication between couples and the benefits. She stated:

"Effective communication is essential for the longevity of relationships as it builds trust, resolves conflicts constructively, and ensures both partners understand each other's needs and expectations. By sharing thoughts and feelings, partners maintain an emotional connection, which is crucial for a lasting bond. Additionally, good communication helps couples adapt to changes and challenges together, allowing the relationship to evolve positively over time."

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She also stated that:

"Conversely, poor communication can lead to misunderstandings, unresolved conflicts, and a lack of emotional connection, which may result in feelings of frustration, mistrust, and ultimately, the deterioration of the relationship. When communication breaks down, misunderstandings and unresolved conflicts can escalate, and if these negative emotions like frustration and anger are not managed properly, they can manifest as verbal, emotional, or even physical abuse. It's important to address communication issues early and seek help if necessary to prevent such harmful outcomes."

Mzansi was quite taken with the event until many realised that one person was missing out on the love swirling about, the cameraman.

Watch the TikTok clip below.

More about the speaker

Dr Bakhe Dlamini runs a private practice called Community Links based in Sandton, with clients from across South Africa and internationally, including the US, UK, Australia, Abu Dhabi, Saudi Arabia, China, and several African countries.

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He has authored six books, including Accidental Success, Releasing the Sons and The Goodman. Dr Dlamini has also been featured as a relationship expert on popular TV shows like Married at First Sight SA and XO Goals on DSTV.

According to Dr Dlamini, he plans to take his "Recharge your Marriage" conference to Gauteng next in May, followed by eSwatini in June.

South Africans react to the conference

@12_03_05 felt bad for the guy recording:

"Poor camera man😭😂"

@pavlo asked:

"Camera man, what about you?"

@Amo.D 👻 shared:

"Imagine this happening while you are standing alone, camera man 😭"

@Khanyi Angel Linda M gushed:

"I love this for African families. ❤️ Children need to see that love exists. I'm not married, but this brings me joy."

@Mendzy shared with excitement:

"My hubby couldn't stop thanking me for taking him there. It was indeed a blast 🥰🥰🥰"

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@Isaac Nkululeko inquired about future events:

"I am in Gauteng, how much is the entry?"

@Dr Bakhe Dlamini responded helpfully:

"Tickets start at six hundred rands per couple. You can inbox for the flyer and WebTicket link."

​Dr. Bakhe and Nokwanda Dlamini are hosting the second annual Make Me Whole Again Women's Conference on 24 May 24. The event will take place at Moreleta Kerk, De Villebois Mareuil Drive, Pretorius Park, Pretoria. Tickets range from R250 to R2,500, with options available for purchase through Webtickets. Their next conference aims to empower women through inspiring speakers, interactive workshops, and opportunities for personal growth and healing. VVIP attendees will enjoy benefits such as a meet-and-greet with the Dlaminis, photographs, a full meal, reserved parking, and prime seating.

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Updated by Hilary Sekgota, Human Interest HOD at Briefly News.

Source: Briefly News