Mzansi Pastor Explaining Why Men Divorce Gets Slammed After Saying Women Should Take Care of Their Men Better

Mzansi Pastor Explaining Why Men Divorce Gets Slammed After Saying Women Should Take Care of Their Men Better

  • A video on TikTok caused a buzz after a pastor told people the reason why many husbands are getting divorced
  • Online users were curious to know the pastor's opinion, and many were disappointed by what he had to say
  • The video of the pastor's thoughts got thousands of likes as he shared a slideshow of a couple with a caption of his marriage advice

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A pastor on TikTok started a conversation about marriage. The religious leader told people that men leave their wives due to poor mental health.

The video got hundreds of comments as people discussed his words. Many people expressed that they disagreed with the pastor's sentiments.

Mzansi Pastor shares marriage advice
A South African pastor told people what he thinks is why men often get divorced. Image: TikTok/@_phindulosadiki_07/ Getty Images/Martine Séverin
Source: UGC

South African preacher tells people leading cause of divorce

In a TikTok by a pastor, @_phindulosadiki__07, he explains that men divorce their partners for mental reasons. He said men needed an emotional connection and could not get one from their wives.

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The preacher says his friend decided to leave his wife, not because of a midlife crisis or infidelity. @_phindulosadiki__07 wrote that men face pressures to provide, leading to loneliness and depression. He advised wives to prioritise their husbands, even if they have kids, to ensure their needs are met.

Watch the video.

South Africans disagree with pastor's opinion on marriage

The people in the comments disagreed with what the preacher had to say. Many said that the man who left his wife was childish. South Africans are never shy about relationship issues, and the pastor's sentiments divided many people.

@godfreyhlonibaleni commented:

"So true. I can attest to that. We feel so lonely most of the time."

@leedyawt commented:

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"A man is the head of his home. Let him make haven for himself where he comes and finds love and warmness, other wise they will leave."

@kelvinomolo616 commented:

"This is a very sensitive topic. I feel that most relationships don't build the friendship part of it. This means that one cannot open up to the other."

@keamighty commented:

"He should have started by making sure that kids' needs are shared between them so that they can give each other emotional support."

@nanakhuzway0 commented:

"When a woman is emotionally and spiritually there for you. You and your friends say ukudonsa ngekhala and when she stops caring uyahamba."

@mrs.vanto commented:

"Something that could have been communicated. This man left because he wants to be a child."

Pastor plays amapiano in church, congregation's delight warm SA hearts

Briefly News reported that a video showing church members letting loose when an amapiano beat came on went viral on TikTok. People could not help but notice how different congregants reacted to the pastor's song choice.

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Most South Africans love amapiano, and people who watched the video were amused to see proof. Netizens flooded the comments by picking their favourite church members' reactions.

Mzansi loves amapiano and the dancing that goes with it. Some people pointed out the man in a brown t-shirt who was turning up in the front row and the man in the purple coat who came down the aisle dancing.

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Rutendo Masasi (Human-Interest editor) Rue Masasi is a Human Interest and Entertainment writer at Briefly News who graduated with a BA (Hons) in English from Rhodes University in 2018. Rue also has 2 years of experience in journalism and over four years of experience as an online ESL teacher. She has also passed a set of trainings by Google News Initiative. You can reach her via email: rutendo.masasi@briefly.co.za