“My Dad Did This Twice”: Man Fails To Pitch for Lobola Talks at Woman’s Home, SA’s in Disbelief

“My Dad Did This Twice”: Man Fails To Pitch for Lobola Talks at Woman’s Home, SA’s in Disbelief

  • A family excitedly woke up early and cleaned their home in preparation for their daughter's fiancé and his family to arrive for Lobola negotiations
  • After all the hard work and efforts, the expected family did not show up or call to cancel, leaving the makoti-to-be's family confused and disappointed
  • The preparations video got social media users talking as many thought the TikTok user who shared it was joking
TikTok users were shocked to hear of a man who did not pitch at his in-laws on the day he was meant to pay Lobola
A family prepared a fest for their daughter's inlaws and ate it as they did not arrive. Image: @kamatomela5 / TikTok
Source: TikTok

A local family put much effort into preparing for an event meant to unite two families as their daughter's fiance was coming to pay the Lobola for her. They woke up early, cleaned their house, cooked a feast, and ensured their yard was tidy.

A clip of the preparations was shared on TikTok by a family member whose handle is @kamatomela5, leaving social media users feeling sorry for the hun after the man did not pitch.

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Preparing to welcome in-laws

In the video, the family can be seen hustling to prepare for the big day. They cut the grass, wash their couches, and set up a beautiful table, preparing for their prestige guests. The meal, which included a braai (barbecue) and an enormous feast, was beautifully laid out. The lady's family ends up feasting on the food after struggling to get hold of the man.

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Mzansi's disappointed by the man

Almost 600 social media users shared their thoughts on the comment feed. Many sympathised with the family, and others shared their own similar experiences.

User @SiviweBoyce commented:

"Haibo, I hope nothing bad happened to the guys. I'd get worried. I doubt it was intentional.

User @SandyMngadi advised:

"Next time, tell your immediate family only, cause yeyi, abantu ne chemical engineering."

User @Mo Seheri asked:

"Ewu kodwa why?😭😭😭."

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User @Pinkybae❤️said:

"🥺The reason why I didn’t want to tell many people I was afraid of ukuphoxeka (to be embarrassed)."

User @Dineo 👑added:

"Seni washe nama sofa (you guys even washed the ouches)... 😔Akabulawe lomfana (he doesn't deserve to live) 😩😩, so sorry sisi 💜."

User @Mqithi96 shared:

"My dad did this twice ke to my mum. Only to find out my grandmother used the money the 1st time, 2nd time she threatened my uncle to give her the money aga, 3rd time."
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  • A hun and family celebrated her Lobola negotiations three months after meeting her fiancé on a dating site.
  • Sharks rugby player Vincent Tshituka paid Lobola for his fiancé and a cute celebration with friends and family.

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Bongiwe Mati (Editor) Bongiwe Mati is an experienced reporter currently working under the Human Interest desk at Briefly News since (Aug 2024). Prior to joining the Briefly team, she worked for a campus newspaper at the University of the Western Cape (2005) before joining the Marketing and Sales department at Leadership Magazine, Cape Media (2007-2009). She later joined BONA magazine as an Editorial Assistant (2023-2024), writing for digital and print magazines under current news, entertainment, and human interest categories. She can be reached at bongiwe.mati@briefly.co.za