“He’s Broke”: Woman Receives Shockingly Harsh Response After Asking Boyfriend for R250

• A South African woman went viral after receiving a scathing response from her boyfriend when asking for money for her hair
• Viewers were captivated by the intensity of the boyfriend’s reaction and shared their own experiences
• The video resonated with audiences due to its authenticity, relatability, and the unexpected escalation

South Africans were intrigued by a woman’s viral experience asking her boyfriend for a small amount of money, sparking debates about financial boundaries and relationship expectations.

A South African woman went viral after receiving an unexpectedly harsh message from her boyfriend when she asked for R250, as shared by TikTok user @shyleentshuma2 on TikTok on 10 September 2025. The woman explained that she needed the money to do her hair, but instead of a simple response, her boyfriend sent a lengthy voice note expressing frustration over financial matters. In the note, he compared her request to his past relationships, referencing a woman he planned to marry who earned over R80,000 per month and contrasting it with her professional achievements as a lawyer, emphasising the tension between expectations and reality in their relationship. The situation unfolded online, giving viewers insight into relationship dynamics, money management disputes, and the unexpected way small financial requests can escalate.

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The video offered audiences a glimpse into the couple’s communication style and highlighted how financial expectations can affect personal relationships. Many viewers could relate to instances where asking for seemingly small amounts of money triggered strong reactions from partners. The influencer’s post sparked conversations around respect, communication, and financial boundaries in relationships, illustrating how cultural and social expectations can influence everyday interactions. Additionally, the video emphasised the modern digital space as a platform for sharing personal experiences and fostering discussions on relatable life situations.

Social media reacts to the viral R250 request

Within days, the video amassed over 18,000 likes and more than 600 comments, reflecting the audience’s fascination with real-life relationship conflicts. Social media users engaged actively, sharing their own experiences and debating whether the boyfriend’s reaction was reasonable or excessive. The viral nature of the video highlighted the appeal of authentic, relatable content that resonates with viewers’ personal lives, sparking widespread online conversation and emotional engagement.

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Audiences reacted with surprise, disbelief, and humour at the intensity of the boyfriend’s response, while also sympathising with the woman’s predicament. The post prompted discussions about relationship expectations, financial communication, and boundaries between partners, leaving viewers reflecting on their own interactions. The combination of relatability, shock, and entertainment value contributed to the video’s popularity, capturing the public’s attention and generating significant social media buzz.

Here's what South Africans had to say

Whatever wrote:

“I will never date intomabaza e broke ... iscefe nje.”

Kananelo Mokhemisa wrote:

“We have suffered enough, gentlemen, amandla! 🤣”

Nandipha Msutwana wrote:

“All because of R250. 😂😂😂”

Yuri De Cabo wrote:

“Am I the only one who agrees with him. 🤣🤣”

mfokagamede wrote:

“NgoR250 nje iRazo isingaze iqambe amanga kanje. 😭😂”

Classicforextrader_official wrote:

“I just sent her R30k for hair treatment, I don’t know if that was cheap. 😭😅”

Mpumie wrote:

“Akabuyele keh kulo bekazo shada naye or baby mama... Haibo nge R250 nje.”

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Ma-Shembe wrote:

“Sicela le Mali Sbari, phuma emajazini, ingakho engasakushada loya sisi uyakhuluma. 😅😂.”

Check out the TikTok video below:

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Source: Briefly News