Former ‘The River’ Star Aldrin Sampear Discusses Rejection and Childhood Trauma, SA Gets Emotional

Former ‘The River’ Star Aldrin Sampear Discusses Rejection and Childhood Trauma, SA Gets Emotional

  • Aldrin Sampear opened up about his childhood and his rejection by his father and his family in a deeply emotional post
  • In his post shared on X on Thursday, 12 June 2025, he also advised people on the consequences of casual relationships
  • Netizens responded with support, while others shared their similar experiences and praised Sampear for telling his story
  • Briefly News spoke to relationship expert Paula Quinsee, who advised how individuals who were abandoned as children can build healthy relationships as adults

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Aldrin Sampear discusses rejection and childhood trauma
Aldrin Sampear shared his childhood story. Image: aldrinsampear
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Media personality Aldrin Sampear left Mzansi its their feels when he wore his heart on his sleeve and opened up about his upbringing.

Sampear, a Newzroom Afrika anchor, was in the news after he allegedly assaulted a female motorist in Johannesburg on 17 April 2025. With the incident behind him, the former Power 98.7 FM host opened up about his upbringing and gave his two cents on casual sex.

Aldrin Sampear opens up about rejection and childhood trauma

Taking to his verified X account on Thursday, 12 June 2025, Aldrin Sampear opened up about his childhood and upbringing. In a poignant post, Sampear, who was featured in the last season of The River, shared that his father rejected him, and he suggested that he still carries that trauma today. The post was captioned:

“I was born rejected. My father’s family denied paternity. Be careful of how you have sex and who you have it with. The moment of pleasure can cause indelible trauma on the one who is conceived in the moment of pleasure. It’s an unfair burden. We all deserve the belonging.”

Netizens react to Aldrin Sampear's revelation

Netizens filled the comments with words of comfort and encouragement. Several netizens also shared similar experiences and how the rejection affected their adult relationships. Others were stunned that Aldrin Sampear had such a tough upbringing.

Here are some of the comments:

@chefluuu shared:

“I was born rejected, too. My mom died after my birth, dad is nowhere to be found. Every human I've come across on this earth has always rejected me, but life goes on. So, how did you get your English names?”

@Lindo_Mnisi said:

“Eish, I can just imagine the pain of growing up knowing that your father denied you. The anger within. The confusion. The trauma. Thanks for sharing, man. Hope you can speak more on what this does to a person to hopefully educate.”

@BlvckScvleOle replied:

“Here I was thinking you were some cheeseboy who grew up super soft.”

@KennedyWandera_ responded:

“Hugs, my brother. So sorry about this.”

@BridgetMasinga said:

“Every child deserves to know that they were chosen, wanted and called into being. The best energy you can give your child is knowing, regardless of what transpired in the romantic relationship of the parents, that they were wanted.”

Aldrin Sampear shares childhood trauma and rejection
Aldrin Sampear opened up about being rejected by his father's family. Image: aldrinsampear
Source: Instagram

Briefly News spoke to relationship expert Paula Quinsee, who advised how adults who were abandoned as children can build healthy relationships. She emphasised that while it can be challenging, it isn't impossible.

"Recovering from early-life emotional abandonment can be challenging, but it is possible to build healthy relationships as an adult. The process requires self-awareness, healing, and intentional effort to change their childhood narrative," she said.

Paula Quinsee explained that one way of building relationships as an adult with rejection and abandonment issues requires self-awareness.

"Recognise and understand how this past rejection may be affecting present relationships. Gaining insight into how our early experiences shaped our current fears, behaviours, and expectations allows individuals to begin breaking unhealthy patterns and reframe them with new narratives," she explained.
Aldrin Sampear was involved in a road rage incident
Aldrin Sampear was forced to apologise after a road rage incident. Image: aldrinsampear
Source: Instagram

Aldrin Sampear apologises after viral road rage incident

Meanwhile, Briefly News reported that Aldrin Sampear apologised after the viral road rage incident.

A little over a month after the incident, Sampear shared a video in which he appeared remorseful for his behaviour and pleaded with South Africans for forgiveness.

Several social media users weren't as forgiving and didn't buy Aldrin Sampear's apology, asking why he hadn't extended it to the other motorist.

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Tayananiswa Zvikaramba (Editor) Tayananiswa Zvikaramba is an entertainment writer at Briefly News. He previously worked as a profiler, sports, human interest, entertainment, and current affairs writer at Pindula (2016-2022) and iHarare (2022-2025). He holds a BA Honours in Archaeology from the University of Zimbabwe (2010-2013), YOAST SEO for Beginners (2023), YOAST Block Editor Training (2023), and YOAST Structured Data for Beginners (2023). Email: tayananiswa.zvikaramba@briefly.co.za

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Paula Quinsee (Certified Relationship Therapy Educator and founder of Engaged Humans) Paula Quinsee is the founder of Engaged Humans, facilitating connection between individuals and organisations to create a more human-connected world. She is a certified Imago Relationship Therapy educator and facilitator, NLP practitioner, PDA analyst, coach and trainer. Paula is also the author of two self-help guides - Embracing Conflict and Embracing No - as well as an international speaker, advocate for mental health and activist for gender-based violence.