Netizens Compare Murdah Bongz's Birthday Messages For Kairo and Asante

• Social media users have been on Murdah Bongz's case after they compared his birthday messages to his daughters
• Fans saw differences in his tone and choice of words when he wished Kairo a happy birthday, whereas with Asante, it was very simple
• This all started when peeps saw a photo of Kairo's father, the late Kiernan 'AKA' Forbes, on their home wall
• Relationship expert and psychologist Paula Quinsee told Briefly News how blended families can thrive when kids have strong ties to their biological family

Former Black Motion group member Murdah Bongz was under scrutiny for his birthday messages dedicated to his daughter and step-daughter.

On TikTok, peeps ripped into Murdah, teasing him for going back to a house with a picturesque memory of the late Kiernan 'AKA' Forbes. The discourse began when peeps saw a photo of the late rapper on their wall.

Murdah's birthday messages scrutinised

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On Facebook, user Lady Londie posted screenshots of the reactions to Murdah's birthday messages to both Asante Mohosana and Kairo Forbes.

It was his tone and choice of words when he wished Kairo a happy birthday, which seemed to die down when it was his biological daughter, whereas with Asante, it was very simple and to the point.

On the kidfluencer's birthday on 8 July 2025, Murdah said, "Happy birthday, my soul. Words can’t describe how much I love you. You're a blessing that came to my life, made it endlessly beautiful."

Whereas, on Asante's birthday on 8 September 2025, Murdah wrote a straightforward message, "Happy birthday to my beautiful daughter."

Relationship expert Paula Quinsee told Briefly News that blended families blossom when aspects such as mutual understanding of one's past and understanding their values and morals.

"Recognising that both sides in the relationship have history can make navigating the relationship easier," Quinsee said.

Paula added that understanding that kids have ties to their biological families and honouring the role that the biological parents play in their lives can help step-parents build their own relationships with the kids, which is vital in making a blended family thrive.

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Check out the comments below:

Mzansi reacts to Murdah's posts

Below are some of the reactions:

Tarry Maringire shared:

"From someone who grew up with a half sister whose father had passed away, my father used to give my half sister more attention so that she never felt the void of not having a father."

Snenhlanhla Hlophe reacted:

"I understand this. My grandmother and my mother raised my late Aunt’s son, and they gave him more attention so that he wouldn’t feel the void."

Kabelo Portia Mkansi mentioned:

"That girl is still a toddler and won’t even see his long paragraphs even if he puts in more words."

Sihle Mlaba added:

"What people are not realising is that Bongz is getting Free publicity from all this ... A larger Market for him. It's more beneficial than Hinderance, it's a net gain... Keep angling and talking about his name; y'all are boosting his relevance and shifting the algorithm towards him. He and Zinhle are Marketing geniuses. They know how to get a reaction out of you, and y'all fall for it every damn time. Boss moves."

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DJ Zinhle reveals how Murdah made it up to her

In a previous report from Briefly News, DJ Zinhle revealed that she and her husband, Murdah Bongz, had a disagreement which led to them being on non-speaking terms.

Murdah Bongz made peace with DJ Zinhle by giving her a small yet thoughtful apology gift, and it left a lasting impact on her. Her fans found the story both hilarious and relatable, with many admiring the strong bond between DJ Zinhle and Murdah Bongz.

Proofreading by Kelly Lippke, copy editor at Briefly.co.za.

Source: Briefly News