“Things We Go Through As Waiters”: Birthday Girl Ignores Staff While Singing for Her, SA Unimpressed

“Things We Go Through As Waiters”: Birthday Girl Ignores Staff While Singing for Her, SA Unimpressed

  • A woman sat at a restaurant while a group of nearly 10 cheerful staff members sang and clapped to celebrate her birthday
  • Instead of smiling or acknowledging them, she looked away, appearing completely uninterested while restaurant workers put effort into making the moment special
  • The video sparked a debate online as some viewers found her reaction rude and ungrateful, and others speculated that she was probably expecting something bigger
TikTok users were shocked to see a lady ignoring people who were trying to make her birthday special
A woman looked unimpressed as restaurant waiters sang her a birthday song. Image: @promiseangeliqu
Source: TikTok

Many restaurants go the extra mile to make birthdays special by having their staff sing for customers. Their cheerful melodies and clapping often bring joy to the birthday person, making them feel celebrated. People, however, react differently to the kind gesture, as some love it and some don't.

A local lady, TikTok user @promiseangelique, shared a clip of her restaurant birthday celebration, leaving social media users engaged in a serious debate about appreciation and respect.

Restaurant waiters sing for the birthday girl

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In the clip, several waiters stand around @promiseangelique, happily clapping and singing. While they put effort into making the moment special, the birthday girl appears completely uninterested. She doesn't smile, make eye contact, or acknowledge them. Instead, she looks away as if she is bored.

Watch the TikTok video below:

SA is unimpressed by the woman's cold gesture

The clip sparked mixed reactions, with many saying she was very impolite. Some users felt she could have smiled or clapped to show appreciation. Others speculated that she might have expected a bigger surprise like an engagement and was possibly disappointed when it didn’t happen.

Others felt sorry for their siblings working at restaurants who often deal with impolite customers and suggested that restaurants rethink the singing gesture to protect other people's dignity.

Restaurant waiters sang a happy birthday song for a woman who looked unhappy
Social media users speculated that a woman was expecting a ring after she looked unhappy on her birthday. Image: @promiseangelique
Source: TikTok

User @Mercy Kunene shared:

"Maybe she was expecting a proposal, that's why she got furious 🤣😂."

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User @SihleChipunza commented

"Things we go through as waiters 💔😂."

User Mama Ka Siqalo said:

"I wasn’t even gonna post such!!!! 😳😳😳 She seems so uninterested and they are singing so beautifully for her. Ayi😳."

User @Sir_Le_Roux added:

"Appreciation never killed anyone. even if you can pretend it's fine. but don't just sit like that. please make their day as they try to make your day also.😒😒."

User @obsessionnails shared:

"Maybe she's shy, lina selimthuka (and you guys are already on her case)."

User @Sylvia said:

"Yooh, this is so rude, you could’ve smiled and be mad at the person who told them it’s your birthday afterwards 🥺."

3 Briefly News articles about birthdays

  • A young man was praised online for going all out for his girlfriend on her birthday, spoiling her with goodies and making her day unforgettable.
  • A loving son bought groceries worth R200 and cooked a hearty meal for his mom to celebrate her birthday, leaving social media users touched.
  • A toddler was instructed to wish his gogo a happy birthday, and he did when asked to tell her that he loved her, he refused, asking why he had to say that.

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Source: Briefly News

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Bongiwe Mati (Human Interest Editor) Bongiwe Mati is a Human Interest reporter who joined Briefly News in August 2024. She holds a Bachelor of Arts Honours degree from the University of the Western Cape. Her journalism journey began in 2005 at the university newspaper. She later transitioned to marketing and sales at Leadership Magazine under Cape Media (2007-2009). In 2023, she joined BONA magazine as an Editorial Assistant, contributing to digital and print platforms across current news, entertainment, and human interest categories. Bongiwe can be reached at bongiwe.mati@briefly.co.za