Woman Complains About How Possessive and Controlling Her Unemployed Bae is, Mzansi Gives Her Advice

• A woman took to social media to complain about how her unemployed boyfriend has been treating her
• She explained that even though she works and studies, her bae expects her to take all his phone calls and gets upset if she falls asleep without talking to him
• The man has apparently also accused her of having a sugar daddy and the woman now seeks advice on how to leave him

A local woman got people talking after opening up about her relationship and how her boyfriend has been portraying possessive traits.

Twitter user @marata_helele posted a tweet revealing that she is dating a man who is unemployed while she currently working and studying.

“I am working and studying and making money here and there. He requires me to pick up his phone whenever he calls. Last night I was truly exhausted then went to sleep without talking to him,” @marata_helele wrote.

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She added that she spent the following day apologising for falling asleep. But as if that is not unsettling enough, her man also doesn’t want her to have friends and questions her finances.

“If I get close to someone he says he had a vision of that person doing me bad. And that I should distance myself from them. He questions every cent I have and sometimes accuses me of having a sugar daddy. I'm exhausted. How do I dump him? We both don't have kids,” she shared in the post.

Mzansi netizens did not hesitate to share their 2 cents on her relationship woes. While some only focused on the issue of the man being unemployed, several others gave their advice and opinions on the matter.

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@sakhsrad said:

“This thread is clear proof that women can’t stand unemployed men. It’s sad actually.”

@babysapplebun reacted:

“Tell him you got a vision that he's gonna do you badly and you should distance yourself from him .”

@MmatlouLebogang replied:

“She is not complaining about him being unemployed bathong. .”

@ChefWesley5 commented:

“Well, I think if the roles were reversed and it was a guy complaining, they wouldn't have led with "who is unemployed" because as far as I can see, his insecurities and controlling have got nothing to do with his unemployment. Uyabheda nje umjita.”

@CastleLarger wrote:

“Ncoooh...... I don't feel sorry for you, people love putting themselves in situations where they can see the red flags, and rather than leave they do a Twitter thread.”

@ABlasianDeity said:

“Your spirit will never be at peace with him present and you won't be able to help people. If our partners can't understand nor support us in our daily life and spiritual quests then they are not for us. Please leave before they make you strongly resent him, for his sake.”

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In another story, Briefly News reported that Twitter users had mixed reactions to a lady who posted about dumping her gent, noting that she refused to be a woman who goes 50/50 with a guy.

@MissTinah_M opened up about being single again, posting screengrabs of a conversation she had with a guy she was seeing, noting that she wanted to be spoiled.

After the dude was honest and said he did not think he would be able to afford her, the hun dumped him, with social media users divided about the situation.

Source: Briefly News