Married Man Hurt by Side Chick’s Wedding Plans, Says He Is Ready to Raise Their Son

Married Man Hurt by Side Chick’s Wedding Plans, Says He Is Ready to Raise Their Son

  • A Kenyan man admitted to having wronged his side chick by leaving her after she became pregnant, opting instead to focus on his family.
  • He sought advice on rekindling the relationship with her and said he was willing to take responsibility for his son who he had previously refused to interact with
  • The man lamented about the side chick's wedding plans, saying she should wait until their son was older to get married

A Kenyan man has taken to social media to complain about the marriage of his side chick.

A man holds his cheek, lost in thought.
A Kenyan man said he wanted his side chick back after discovering she was getting married. Photo for illustration. Photo: Urbazon/ Getty Images.
Source: UGC

Why did the man oppose his side chick's marriage?

In an anonymous message to TikTok user @hannanoons, the man disapproved of the side chick's marriage. He disclosed that he got her pregnant before leaving her and decided to focus on his family.

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The man went on to say that despite the side chick's pleas for him to raise and interact with his son, he refused because he was not ready.

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However, upon learning that she was making wedding preparations, the man was not pleased, saying he had tried to reach out to her to no avail. He said he was ready to spend time with his son.

Further, the man said he did not support the side chick's marriage, saying she should wait for their boy to get a bit older first.

Man confesses his dilemma

Turning to netizens for advice, he said he did not mind getting back together with the side chick and wanted to know how he would do so.

In his words:

"I'll start with acknowledging I was wrong. I got my side chick pregnant seven years ago and decided to focus on my family. But the issue is she's now getting married, and her dowry has already been paid for. I am concerned with the man's intentions since men don't marry women with boy children. I am willing to meet my son and take responsibility if only she can hold on until the child is a bit older. If she will want to get married, she can."

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"I've tried all ways to meet amekataa kabisa. But also kama atanirudia me siwezi kata. She has forced me severally to mingle with the boy but i wasn't ready. I know boys need their fathers. Is there a correct way of making her come back apart from impregnating again?" he asked.

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How did netizens react to the man's revelation?

The man's predicament ignited several reactions from netizens.

@pollynegichuki reacted:

"Hiyo part ya he didn't think men want women with boys meant he had hoped she will always be trapped with him".

@wambuikalage confessed:

"I know a guy who wanted to cause havoc on his baby Mama's wedding."

@natashah_tasha added:

"My current situation now that am married he wants to take responsibility."

@Mariah reacted:

"Haha! Who told him women can't get married with a baby boy."

@nyamburakibe0 added:

"Ati, hold on? She should put her life to a standstill because of him? eii audacity."

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@njeh asked:

"So he just decided to take responsibility after finding out she's getting married?"

@Mayana❤ said:

"This is a whole weapon formed against someone."

@sh!! added:

"Waah may God shield this one from that selfish man forever and ever."

Nigerian lady catches father with his side chick

Briefly News recently reported that a lady said she went to a restaurant to celebrate her mother's birthday, but she met her father there with another woman. The lady said she was there with her mother, and her father was with a side chick who was ordering him around.

She claimed that after her father returned from the restaurant, he asked them to move out of his house immediately.


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