“It Starts Off Cute Until It’s Not”: SA Unimpressed as Boyfriend Stalks Bae

• One lady thought it was adorable of her man to be stalking her during girls' night, but Mzansi seemed to think otherwise
• The stunner shared a video showing her boo thang at the restaurant where she was with her friends
• Social media users did not find the babe's post cute, as they rushed to the comments section to express their thoughts
• Briefly, News spoke to a relationship and sex educator, Kelley Nele, who shared the dynamic impact of overly monitoring a partner in a relationship

A woman in South Africa went viral on TikTok after showcasing how her man stalked her during girls' night.

Boyfriend stalks bae at girls' night in viral video

The hun, who goes by the TikTok handle @_peachysprinkles, can be seen laughing in shock after spotting her man in the same restaurant she was dining in with her girls.

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@_peachysprinkles revealed that she left her bae at home and was surprised to see him at the restaurant. While taking to her TikTok caption, the young babe simply said the following:

"POV: Your boyfriend is obsessed with you, so he stalks you even when you're on a girls' night out."

The clip captured many people's attention, gearing over 12.9 million views within five days of its publication.

Watch the video below:

Dynamic impact of overly monitoring a partner in a relationship

Being an overly monitoring partner can lead to a range of negative consequences, both emotional and behavioural, affecting trust, communication, and the relationship's overall health.

While speaking to Briefly News, relationship and sex educator Kelley Nele said what may drive someone to follow their partner during social events may be a result of "control or insecurity."

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"If the partner is abusive, then following their partner to an event is one way their abusive behaviour will manifest. In other rarer cases where the behaviour is a product of insecurity alone, it may be because of past infidelity," said Kelley.

The relationship and sex educator added:

"Having a controlling partner can cause a person to feel anxious, more stressed and even isolated. The recipient of the behaviour may experience powerlessness due to the power imbalance created by the controlling partner."

SA reacts with mixed feelings

Mzansi netizens had mixed emotions about the stunner's viral video; many expressed their thoughts in the comments.

Success Itumeleng gushed over the couple:

"If he is not like Arjin, I don't want him. He must be obsessed with me, Argh."

Tshenolo P said:

"It starts off cute until it's not."

OwethuMasombuka expressed:

"This flag is very maroon, my love."

TiisetsoRaizerDiale wrote:

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"It starts as obsession, then control. A very dangerous combination."

Yongama<3 inquired:

"Am I toxic? because this would actually worry me a bit."

Vance Roday commented:

"It's funny until it’s not."

“He stalked me”: Woman gives Venda guy a chance, stress lands her in hospital

Briefly News previously reported that a woman in Mzansi was shown flames by her partner, and she took to social media to narrate her story.

The stunner, who goes by the TikTok handle @mukondelelianemone, had quite the experience with her man that left her in a horrifying state. The hun revealed to her viewers that she decided to date a Venda man; however, things took a shocking turn, which landed her in the hospital.

Source: Briefly News