SA Couple's Tense Date After Argument in Video, Mzansi Can Relate: "The Accuracy"

SA Couple's Tense Date After Argument in Video, Mzansi Can Relate: "The Accuracy"

  • One couple left many South Africans cracking up in laughter after they showcased their tense date after an argument
  • The clip went viral online, capturing the attention of netizens gathering loads of views, likes and comments
  • The pair amused Mzansi as they flooded the comments section with jokes and laughter
  • Briefly News spoke to psychologist and relationship expert Penny Holburn on how couples can resolve tension and conflict in a relationship
A TikTok video shows a couple having a tense date after an argument.
A couple unveiled how they had a tense date after having an argument in a TikTok video. Image: @kim_and_tanaka
Source: TikTok

Relationships are rocky at times. Couples experience good times or bad times, and these young lovebirds showcased just that in their TikTok video, which went viral on social media.

Couple's tense date after an argument goes viral

The clip shared by TikTok user @kim_and_tanaka showcases the adorable pair at one of Spur's restaurants where they were eating.

The duos revealed to their viewers that they argued before heading out on their date, which caused a tense interaction between them, as seen in the footage they uploaded on the video-sharing app.

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Many could relate to @kim_and_tanaka's video, which became a hit on TikTok, gathering loads of views, thousands of likes and comments.

Watch the amusing clip of the hilarious couple below:

Here is how couples can resolve tension and conflict in a relationship

While speaking to Briefly News, psychologist and relationship expert Penny Holburn said the following:

"In terms of healthy relationships, the general advice is to acknowledge that people have different opinions and beliefs and be tolerant and accepting of them unless you feel they are really unacceptable. You can acknowledge someone else’s view without having to take it on as your own."

The relationship expert advised couples to let each other say what needed to be said in full without interrupting until the person had said what they wanted or needed to say.

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"Then, the other party gets a chance to say exactly what they want to say without interruption. At least hear one another out," Penny added.

Effective ways to apologise or mend a relationship after causing someone to feel angry

The psychologist said that if hurtful things were said during the argument, it is always best to apologise.

"Don’t try and defend yourself because it lessens the effect of the apology. Just say, I was wrong, I am sorry I said that. You can also say you didn’t mean to upset them. And then don’t do it again. Keep it simple and sincere."

SA is amused by the couple's antics

The couple entertained Mzansi netizens, and many headed to the comments section to crack jokes, while some simply laughed it off.

Winotlha said:

"Relationships are something else because this is so real."

Ratoblooming added:

"Lol, we once fought before a date, put the fight on hold, had a good time then continued fighting when we got home."

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Ana expressed:

"At least he fed you, girl."

Keshia Dunn-Fayers wrote:

"That I still love you but I don't like you right now moment."

Shermone Snyman commented:

"The accuracy."

US hun stuns SA hubby by speaking his language on traditional wedding day

Briefly News previously reported that a young American bride went viral on the internet after she surprised her man by speaking in his language.

The famous TikTok couple had their much-anticipated wedding that broke the internet. The couple, who go by the social media handle @gogoandmo, shared a video showcasing Gogo speaking in her husband Mo's native language, which impressed Mzansi netizens online.

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Source: Briefly News

Authors:
Johana Mukandila avatar

Johana Mukandila (Editor) Johana Tshidibi Mukandila has been a Human Interest Reporter at Briefly News since 2023. She holds a national diploma in journalism from the Cape Peninsula University Of Technology (2023). She has worked at the United Nations High Commissioner for Refugees, PAICTA, BONA Magazine and Albella Music Production. She is currently furthering her education in journalism at the CPUT. She has passed a set of trainings from Google News Initiative. Reach her at johana.mukandila@briefly.co.za

Penny Holburn avatar

Penny Holburn (Founder of Penny Holburn Coaching) Penny Holburn is a life, career and business coach running her own coaching business since 2010. She has spent 20 years as a consultant in psychological assessment, organisational development, personal and business change, leadership development, coaching and counselling. Penny has majors in psychology and industrial psychology and an MSc Cum Laude in psychology and has completed a Senior Management Development Programme through Wits Business School.

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