“The Song Says It All”: SA Buzzes About Husband’s Underwhelming Homecoming

“The Song Says It All”: SA Buzzes About Husband’s Underwhelming Homecoming

  • A woman shared a video of her husband pulling into their driveway and coming home from a previous destination
  • The man climbed out of his car and had a brief conversation with his wife before entering their home
  • Several local social media users were questioning the man's calm reaction compared to his excited wife
  • Briefly News spoke to a relationship educator who shared how couples can navigate external judgements about the relationship
Social media users reacted to a man's react to coming home.
South Africans questioned a man's reaction when he returned home to his wife. Images: Prostock-Studio / Getty Images, @leboo_wa_kg / TikTok, Visions / Getty Images
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People express their emotions differently, and not everyone reacts to seeing their loved ones in a manner that others agree with.

One woman shared a video of her husband returning home, but viewers were quick to comment on his demeanour, with many speculating he lacked excitement to see her.

Husband returns home

Using the handle @leboo_wa_kg on TikTok, a local woman shared her enthusiasm about seeing her husband pull up in their driveway after returning from his previous destination.

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The couple had a brief conversation before the man, who may not have shared the same physical emotions as his wife, entered the house.

Watch the video below:

How couples can handle strangers' judgement

Relationship educator Kelley Nele explained to Briefly News how couples can navigate external judgments about their relationships, especially when it's based on something as subjective as body language.

"Couples can remember that people outside their relationship don't see the full scope, and their judgments are more likely to be projections (assumptions).
"Couples who post on social media should expect this sort of scrutiny and learn to prioritise their reality and feelings about their relationship over strangers'."

SA questions man's homecoming reaction

Hundreds of members of the online community headed to the woman's comment section to share their thoughts about her husband's reaction to coming home. Many thought the man could have been more excited when seeing his wife.

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After hearing Sgudi Snyc blaring from the man's car, @official.boar_boer told online users:

"The song says it all."

@glance301 laughed and said:

"I know this guy. Ke ene husband? Yoh, anyway, I hope you have a heart as strong as Mandela Bridge."

A surprised @tshegokodisang wrote in the comment section:

"Not even a hug and a kiss? Yoh, may this kind of man never locate me."

@dineokumako4 said to the wife:

"He doesn't seem happy to see you. Yoh, askies shame."

@skinnynikkat assumed with a laugh:

"Aikhona, this guy is not happy to be at home."

@clint_somesay shared what they would have done in the situation:

"I would leave the car in the driveway to give my wife a hug and a kiss, then drive the car in."

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Source: Briefly News

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Jade Rhode (Human Interest Editor) Jade Rhode is a Human Interest Reporter who joined the Briefly News team in April 2024. She obtained her Bachelor of Arts degree from Rhodes University, majoring in Journalism and Media Studies (distinction) and Linguistics. Before pursuing her tertiary education, Jade worked as a freelance writer at Vannie Kaap News, telling the tales of the community. After her studies, Jade worked as an editorial intern for BONA Magazine, contributing to both print and online. To get in touch with Jade, please email jade.rhode@briefly.co.za

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Kelley Nele (Relationship and Sex Educator) Kelley Nele is a Relationship and Sex Educator and writer. She has been coaching individuals for 5 years and edifying people on foundational and advanced topics within the realm of dating, relationships, sex and sexuality via her writing for 2 years. She has successfully written engaging and insightful content for the following publications: Reader’s Digest UK, LGBTQ+ Nation, TransLash and Metro UK.