Woman Brags About Baby Daddy’s Support: “Check Who You Have a Baby With”

• A mom went viral on TikTok after proudly showing how her baby daddy supports their child in practical ways
• The video received tens of thousands of likes as people praised her for celebrating presence over absence
• Mzansi viewers found it a refreshing shift from the usual negative narratives about absent fathers

South Africans praised a mom for spotlighting her supportive baby daddy, saying more positive stories like this are needed.

In a time where stories of absent fathers often dominate conversations, one TikTok has stood out for all the right reasons. The clip reminded viewers that fatherhood is not just about being present but about showing up in the small, consistent ways that truly matter.

A video posted on 20 August 2025 by TikTok user @sammie.lihle has been trending for all the right reasons. In the short clip, she showed off items her baby daddy had bought for their child, things like formula, baby food and medicine. The video wasn’t about flashy gifts or expensive spoils, but rather about consistency and care.

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In less than 19 hours, the post gained over 27,000 likes and more than 400 comments, with viewers quickly weighing in. Many praised her for appreciating her partner’s effort, saying it was refreshing to see a woman celebrate fatherhood rather than complain about the lack of support.

Celebrating the good dads

Mzansi’s reaction was overwhelmingly positive, with people saying men who are present should be acknowledged just as much as those who aren’t. Others joked that she was bragging about the bare minimum, but most agreed it’s still important to show gratitude when someone plays their role. The post sparked a wave of discussions about co-parenting, commitment and the value of showing up.

The clip may have been short, but it clearly struck a chord. In a world where stories about absent fathers dominate social media, Sammie's video stood out as a reminder that many men are quietly doing their part and deserve recognition, too.

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Mzansi reacted to the video

Promise Motsepe said:

"Wami usenda ithousand elilodwa for inyanga yonke! 😂😂"

Trinity Mtimande said:

"Why labantu abashiwa obaby daddy babe bitter kanjena. 😩 Choma wena cc, we appreciate men who take responsibility. 👏"

Sizophila said:

"Mina ngisehluleki bandla, ngahluleka kabili ukukhetha kahle obaba bezingane. 🥺😭"

Roshnee said:

"Unenhlanhla sisi🤞🥺... I'm happy for you."

Philele said:

"May he never change on you, may he be like this forever. This is nice, my sister. 🎊😊😊"

Olwethu said:

"A man who actually wanted to be a father. 👏🏾👏🏾"

Nonhle MaGatsheni said:

"Yey iyayzonda inhlupheko indoda yakho cc. ❤️"

Khulekani Xulu said:

"Absent dads think it’s an AI! 😩"

Check out the TikTok video below:

3 Briefly News stories about present dads

• A heartwarming TikTok video went viral, showing a father offering his young son a choice of cars before school.
• A wholesome TikTok showing a father confidently carrying his baby on his back melted hearts across South Africa.
• A proud dad could not contain his excitement after seeing his daughter wearing her graduation regalia.

Source: Briefly News