SA Responds to Viral TikTok of Xhosa Mom Advising Daughter About Her Failed Relationship

SA Responds to Viral TikTok of Xhosa Mom Advising Daughter About Her Failed Relationship

  • A South African Xhosa mom sat down with her daughter after her failed relationship and advised her
  • The Mzansi youngster recorded her conversation with her mother and posted it on TikTok for thousands to see
  • People online were divided by some of the things said, while most appreciated how supportive the parent was

A mother showed up for her daughter after she experienced a breakup and shared some advice with her.

Mother and daughter share moment
A mother comforted her daughter with kind words after her painful breakup. Image: @10'000 Hours
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Their conversation went viral on TikTok with over 374K views. The parent explained to her daughter where things could have gone wrong and how to get over her ex.

The mother’s words touched many people online, while others got a good laugh out of her advice. The youngster was emotional throughout the conversation, but her mom was there for her by hugging her and sharing wise words to ease her ache.

Mom shares advice with daughter about her failed relationship

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A young South African Xhosa lady went viral on TikTok after she posted her conversation with her mother online. The pair discussed the daughter’s failed relationship and how she could bounce back.

The mom explained that her daughter’s boyfriend was over her and there was nothing more she could do to get him back. The youngster was pained to hear her mother’s words, but soon accepted them.

She remembered that her ex was upset by something she failed to disclose, and her mom highlighted that as the root cause of the breakup. The youngster wept, and her mother comforted her by giving her a big hug.

The mother advised her daughter to move on, as her ex-boyfriend did:

“He is not into you. If you would trip and fall, he’d be happy.”

People online were amazed that an African mom had such an open conversation with her child about such a topic. While most were floored by how the mom chose to articulate herself, some realised the love she had for her daughter.

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The youngster captioned her now-viral post:

“POV: Your mom is advising you about a failed relationship.”

Watch the TikTok video below:

SA reacts to mom giving daughter relationship advice

Social media users had mixed feelings about the now-viral conversation and shared their thoughts:

Mom comforts daughter
A mother showed up for her daughter after her boyfriend broke up with her. Image: @KALA STUDIO
Source: Getty Images

@Lisakhanya🌻pointed out:

“Your mom loves you.”

@itsyourgirlsnoxy explained:

“She really does, and she’s upset that I got dumped for something that could’ve been fixed.”

@️ shared:

“If he calls right now, everything Mama said would go out the window.”

@Phumelele Mngadi did not trust the young lady:

“I know someone who is going straight back to Aviwe.”

@k.hanyiiii pointed out:

“I think she’s going to go back.”

@sihle.nda.ba was touched:

"Your mom cares.”

@Diamond_Madlokovu 💎 was concerned:

“My boyfriend’s name is Aviwe. I hope we’re not sharing.”

@_Loza21 commented:

“That time, you know very well you’ll text him after this talk.”

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Chuma Nontsele (Human Interest Editor) Chuma Nontsele is a human interest journalist for Briefly News (joined in 2024). Nontsele holds a Diploma in Journalism and started her career working at Daily Maverick as a news reporter. Later, she ventured into lifestyle and entertainment. Chuma has 3 years of experience as a journalist. You can reach her at chuma.nontsele@briefly.co.za

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