Woman Opens Up About Why She Loves Being a Divorce Attorney

• A TikTok by a divorce attorney showed why she loves helping clients navigate the emotional challenges of divorce
• She highlighted how seeing clients regain confidence and happiness after difficult times is rewarding and inspiring
• Her combination of legal expertise sparked conversations about empathy, professional growth, and meaningful careers
• Briefly News reached out to Mmalibu, an LLB graduate, who recently completed a job shadowing and interview programme at a law firm, for her thoughts on pursuing a career in law, as well as Marcia, also known as Pearl King who is a qualified candidate attorney

South Africans were inspired by a TikTok showing a divorce attorney who blends legal skills with empathy, helping clients start new chapters and offering a lesson in perseverance and meaningful work.

A TikTok user @legalames shared why she enjoys being a divorce attorney, explaining that understanding the emotional side of cases is deeply rewarding. Her passion for helping clients navigate difficult family situations drew attention from viewers. Many admired how she combines legal expertise with empathy.

In the video, she highlighted the satisfaction of seeing clients regain their happiness and independence after divorce. She explained that while the process can be draining, it is meaningful to witness personal growth and fresh starts. Viewers appreciated hearing about the human side of law rather than just courtroom proceedings.

Balancing law career and psychology

Alongside her legal work, she is pursuing an honours degree in psychology, showing dedication to understanding her clients even better. This balance between career and study inspired followers to consider lifelong learning and professional development. The TikTok resonated with those interested in law, mental health, and personal growth.

Her story became a motivational example for anyone entering careers that require empathy and resilience. By sharing her experiences, she encouraged others to pursue meaningful work that makes a difference. South Africans saw the post as both an insight into divorce law and a lesson in perseverance.

Mmalibu shared that a career in law requires both passion and strategy.

“I would say that when considering a career in law, the honest reality is that it is an oversaturated degree. So firstly, it is important that you have a passion for law and find which area or path of law you would like to go into. Having a specialisation such as a Master's degree always helps set you apart."

She emphasised the importance of starting early:

“In order to secure employment, I think it is a journey that starts during varsity. You have to be disciplined and work really hard academically, but also you have to practice exposure by joining different law societies that give a glimpse into legal work. It is also important to do volunteer work or vac work so that you are somewhat seasoned by the time you go for the job market.”

Reflecting on her own experience, Mmalibu highlighted the need for resilience.

“Pursuing a career in law needs resilience and a positive attitude. Even though I was good enough to make it into the doors of a Big Five law firm, I was unfortunately not chosen to stay. And instead of giving up and letting it get to me, I continue to apply to different roles that I still aim for."

She also reminded aspiring lawyers that there are multiple paths to a legal career.

“A traditional law career path is not the only way. There are alternatives to being an attorney, such as paralegal work, compliance work, and other legal roles. So always do your research beforehand and never be discouraged if you have a passion for Law."

Marcia shared her perspective on pursuing a career in law and the realities of working in the profession. She said:

“I wouldn’t discourage anyone from pursuing a career in law, especially if they are truly passionate about justice and committed to making a meaningful contribution to the legal system. However, it's important to acknowledge that this profession is highly demanding, particularly in private practice. There are approximately 30,000 legal practitioners in the field, which means the competition is significant. To succeed, you must be able to distinguish yourself and bring something unique to the profession.”

Marcia emphasised that while the title of 'lawyer' may sound prestigious, real success requires consistency, resilience, and a strong work ethic. She explained:

“Without dedication, it can be difficult to earn a sustainable income. Reaching the top requires consistent effort and careful planning. Anyone considering this path should research the realities of both public and private practice, including salary expectations, employment prospects, and the challenges of running a firm.”

She also encouraged aspiring lawyers to look beyond the traditional attorney role, highlighting the diverse opportunities a law degree can unlock. She said:

“The legal field is broad and there are many career paths where legal expertise is highly valuable, such as compliance, policy development, academia, and corporate governance. At the same time, the professional landscape is evolving rapidly, and emerging industries also offer exciting opportunities that shouldn’t be overlooked.”

South Africans reacted to the reasons

Marcia Emily Motsisi wrote:

"Hi, can I have one lawyer? I am in Johannesburg, like, legally wise, because I don't have money."

Sne Mthembu wrote:

"This is so me, and I became a divorce attorney by default."

Cheni commented:

"Please help me get divorced. The man left 29 years ago. We have nothing to share, my kids are over 21, but his not dead."

Ick asked:

"What does a well-priced attorney and advocate cost?"

Oshanta Sewpersadh commented:

"Easier said than done. Mine has been going for 5 years, I've had four lawyers and still could not get to court. Not forgetting that my ex's cousin is a magistrate. 😏"

Nosie wrote:

"I wish I had come across your content earlier. My attorney is not getting me. I like the part where you mention the psychology part."

Niqicolling commented:

"I've been separated from my husband for 12 years, no contact. Our two children were given to his brother. I have also had no contact with them. I have tried many times, even been through therapy."

Wendy wrote:

"I need your help. I have an attorney, but I am not sure he is helping me. Can I email you, please?"

Check out the TikTok video below:

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Source: Briefly News