Nigerian-British Author Toni Tone Shares Why She Isn’t Having Kids in Her Selfish Girl Phase

Nigerian-British Author Toni Tone Shares Why She Isn’t Having Kids in Her Selfish Girl Phase

  • Nigerian-British author, Toni Tone has taken to Twitter to open up about why she has decided not to have kids at this point in her life
  • The stunner noted that when one has children, many sacrifices have to be made, with the beaut not willing to give up her social life just yet
  • The 33-year-old concluded by saying that she wants to live her life to the fullest before having little ones

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Popular Nigerian-British author, Toni Tone has taken to Twitter to open up about why she’s decided to have kids later in life.

Toni tone admits she does not want kids during the selfish phase of her life
Toni Tone says she wants kids later in life. Image: t0nit0ne.
Source: Twitter

The I Wish I Knew This Earlier: Lessons on Love bestselling writer said that she wants to enjoy being selfish and live her life to the fullest before bringing little ones into the world.

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The beaut noted that having kids requires sacrificing many things, and before she decides to have babies, she wants to enjoy things like working, travelling, and socialising on her own terms.

Toni emphasised that while she knows parents do have lives of their own, she feels they cannot enjoy socialising all the time because of their little ones.

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The 33-year-old’s post read:

“The fact you can’t be selfish when you have kids is why I’m being as selfish as I can be now, whether it comes to travelling, socialising, or working. Kids don’t stop all that stuff, but you certainly can’t do it all the same way, so I’m making the most of it now.”

Some social media peeps agreed with the gorgeous woman’s sentiments, with others stating that they never want children:

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@carolfm26 said:

“I lived my life and still feel I wish I lived more before kids, but it's just at the beginning of their little lives. As they grow, you get to take back pieces of yourself until you are your whole version again.”

@Simdre18 added:

“Not can't be selfish, shouldn't be selfish. Have some ‘parents’ who are still living their best lives while the child is lacking.”

@Serendipity_Swe wrote:

“I've been taking care of others and myself my whole life. I can't fathom the idea of having a mini version of me that I need and must take care of. I was burnt out at 10, so no kids of my own.”

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Meanwhile, Briefly News also wrote about a married woman identified as Dominique Baker living her best life despite not having any children of her own.

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Celebrating being 'childfree' on TikTok, the lady in her 40s said she is totally comfortable with her situation as she never wanted kids. According to the lady, she told her husband that childbirth is scary and that she just wanted to pursue her goals.

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Kauthar Gool (Women Empowerment Editor) Kauthar Gool has been the Women Empowerment Editor at Briefly News since 2022. She holds a Master of Public Relations and Communication Management from the Cape Peninsula University of Technology (CPUT) (2022) and a Bachelor of Technology in Journalism from CPUT (2019). She has worked at the Fundza Literacy Trust, ITWeb, YOU Magazine, and Cape Argus. She is currently furthering her education in journalism at Stellenbosch University. Reach her at: kauthar.gool@briefly.co.za

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