Australian Mum Heartbroken After Losing Baby Week Before Due Date: "Dreams Ripped Away"
- A mother named Tamsin Fielder has shared about a harrowing experience she went through when she delivered a stillborn baby
- Tamsin is yet to come to terms with the loss given that she ate well and took care of herself during the pregnancy
- "My world quickly came crashing down when doctors couldn't find the baby's heartbeat," the grieving mother said
- She revealed that, for days, she and her husband locked themselves indoors for fear that those who had seen her pregnant would ask about the baby
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A heartbroken mother has opened up about the rough patch she and her husband went through after she gave birth to their stillborn daughter a week before her due date.
According to 28-year-old Tamsin Fielder, she and lover Bryce Fielder, 30, had been looking forward to become parents and couldn't wait for their baby.
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Everything seemed to be going well for the couple as the pregnancy was deemed 'low risk' by doctors, reports Daily Mail.
To add to their hopes, the young expectant mother led a healthy life devoid of harmful indulgences like smoking.
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"I took advice and never slept on my back.. I did everything right,' Tamsin said, unable to come to terms with the painful development.
However, everything came crashing down when Tamsin noticed that she could no longer feel the motions of her baby, whom they had named Elke.
Her mother quickly rushed her to the hospital where doctors conducted tests on her but they couldn't find the baby's heartbeat.
Despite conducting tests and an autopsy, doctors couldn't determine the cause of the stillbirth but found the placenta was 'small'.
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"We were heartbroken. You have all these hopes, dreams and visions of what your life will be like with your baby and we were so close to having it all before it was ripped away," she said.
Tamsin added that she was in complete shock as she had only heard of stillbirth but never knew it would happen to her.
One of the most difficult moments for the couple was when they were given medication for Tamsin to take for three days before going back to the hospital for a natural birth.
She reveals that they locked themselves indoors for fear that those who had seen her pregnant would ask how far the baby was.
'It was a really challenging time because everything was ready - the nappies, the nursery, the seat in car, the hospital bag - we were ready to welcome her into the world," she recalled.
They spent days researching on stillbirths and what to expect of the lifeless daughter while trying to accept the fate and planning the funeral.
At the end of the three days, Tamsin and Fielder went back to the hospital where she was induced and delivered of the baby.
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Briefly News also reported that a heartbroken mommy has taken to social media to share videos about her experience of giving birth to a stillborn baby.
The momma lost her little one in January, according to her GoFundMe page, and uses her clips to open up about her loss and share her experiences with parents who may have gone through the same.
In her recent video, TikTok user, louise_truby shared that it had been eight weeks since she lost her baby.
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