SA Woman’s Solo Spur Date Ruined by Persistent Stranger Who Can’t Take No for an Answer

• A young lady shared a video of a stranger bothering her on her solo date, and it went viral online
• The clip captured the attention of many, gearing over 1.2 million views, along with thousands of likes and comments
• It sparked a massive conversation among social media users as they flooded the comments section
• Briefly News spoke to relationship and sex educator Kelley Nele about how can persistent, unwanted attention from strangers affect a person’s sense of safety and comfort

One South African woman went through an uncomfortable situation while trying to enjoy her solo date.

Uncomfortable woman's solo Spur date ruined by man who can't take no for an answer

A stunner who goes by the TikTok handle @sihle_moye shared a video of herself enjoying her lunch in Spur until a man rudely interrupted her.

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In the video, the hun can be seen sipping on her cocktail. The gent offers the woman money, which she declines; however, the man keeps bothering her, making her uncomfortable.

"I need to sit somewhere else I don't feel comfortable," she said in the clip.

The man asks her what she is doing, and she says she is on TikTok. The lady seems annoyed and uncomfortable on her solo date, so she asks the waiter to move her elsewhere.

When the hun asked to move, the gent left the restaurant, and according to the woman, he just entered the place without anyone attending to him.

Watch the video below:

How can persistent, unwanted attention from strangers affect a person’s sense of safety and comfort

While speaking to Briefly News, relationship and sex educator Kelley Nele told the publication that persistent or unwanted attention could create a pervasive sense of discomfort and insecurity, impacting various aspects of a person's well-being.

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"Persistent, unwanted attention from strangers can cause an individual to develop social anxiety. This can affect their ability to feel safe, especially in public spaces. It’s best to see a therapist if this happens to you, as they can help you ease the symptoms," she said.

People react to woman's video

The clip received over 1.2 million views on TikTok. The online community was not impressed with the man's behaviour and expressed their thoughts in the comments section.

Wesley Kisten said:

"There is a way of speaking to woman!! Even if he was a nice guy. If a Lady says no. You leave her alone!"

Dior wrote:

"Babe you shouldn’t have kept on responding. When you respond to them they think maybe he can change your mind. You have to give a mean face and ignore."

Mologadi added:

"I’m so sorry."

King shared:

"Yho, I am triggered because I was once called Isfebe for declining so nicely and was promised hands. I was so scared."

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Brie commented:

"This is why I don't solo date anymore because of such guys."

SA stunned as a thief snatches a woman’s iPhone in broad daylight

Briefly News previously reported that a young woman had quite a horrifying experience, and the moment was captured on camera.

The hun shared the clip on TikTok, which went viral and generated many views, likes, and comments. The footage shared by @ti.fish on the video platform shows a group of people sitting outside a restaurant. The lady was sipping on her drink while minding her own business until the thug came through and snatched her iPhone.

Source: Briefly News