Lady Claims if Peeps Put the Same Energy in Businesses as They Do in Relationships They Would Be Far in Life

• A video of Khaya the Mogel speaking out about the consistency and patience people put into unhealthy relationships
• She claimed that if people put as much energy into building themselves in terms of their dreams and businesses, they would be successful by now
• She even made a typical example in her video which many South Africans, especially women could identify with

An outspoken woman has taken to social media to share her opinion about the consistency and patience people put into unhealthy relationships.

According to Khaya the Mogel if people, especially women devoted all their time and energy to productive things such as businesses and promising ventures, they would be very successful in life.

“You get cheated on 50 00 times but still hang on. Ina relationship where you’re treated like filth but you still hold on with the hope that your partner will change. If the very same energy was used toward realising your dreams, you would be far in life by now.

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She went on to make an example of how if someone tried to sell lipgloss and it did not sell well, that person would be quick to throw in the towel and say it wasn’t meant to be. But the same person will get cheated on 50 times, mistreated, or even abused but still stay in that relationship.

“If the very same consistency and patience you had in your toxic relationships was redirected to your dreams, you would be very far life by now,” she concluded.

Mzansi peeps responded to Khaya’s post in agreement with her views and sentiments:

Ntebaleng Sefahamela reacted:

“I agree with you, my sister.”

Dumisa Dumie Vanqase Mbova responded:

“Yheeeyi mntase akhonto chitha xesha njengothando aluboni tuu uba uyabhanxwa de ubone sekuphele ixesha and ke sana noba ngowakowenu uye umyeke nxantliziyo ngekoneli love.”

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Lulolethu DT commented:

“It's true it's not funny but ndizbone hleka, powerful sisi.”

MaMncwango Mncwango responded:

“Mhmmmm iqiniso lodwa.”

Victoria Tshazi said:

“Perfectly said Sthandwa nd siyayenza lonto.”

Xolelwa Jonase commented:

“Ndiyakuvuma bby wam uyibeka mhlophe standwa it really sis wam.”

Neliswa Nesh Sinyabi wrote:

“Yhoooo inyani engaka mntase ndiyenzile lonto iminyaka yonyamezela apho ungasadingeki khona ndingeva nokuba abantu bathini ndizixelela ukuba ndiyamtanda tata wabantwana bam.”

Lady shares heartbreaking story of toxic relationship that rocked her to the core

In another story, Briefly News reported that on a basic level, any relationship that makes you feel worse rather than better can become toxic over time. A woman took to social media to share some of the dark moments she had to endure in her previous relationship after her ex reduced her self-worth to nothing.

Twitter user @nonosandy1 revealed in a thread of tweets that she never had issues with self-esteem before her last relationship, which shook her to the core.

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“That man hated me but I stayed with him for so long he used to tell me I'm ugly and that no one will ever like me. Imagine at my old age starting to feel ugly, anyway zbunu zakho wena nyamazana, ngimuhle!” she wrote.

Source: Briefly News