“Then You’ll Hear Someone Asking Why”: Gent Shares Why He Can’t Help Wife Carry Groceries

“Then You’ll Hear Someone Asking Why”: Gent Shares Why He Can’t Help Wife Carry Groceries

  • A South African husband shared a humorous video showing his wife carrying multiple grocery bags while he filmed her from behind
  • In his witty caption, he addressed potential critics by asking who will carry the camera if he were to help with the groceries
  • Social media users joined in on the joke with playful comments, with some offering to help carry groceries and others pretending to be concerned about the abuse
A man's post went viral.
One gent shared a reel showing his wife carrying groceries but explained why he couldn't help. Images: @lebogang.prevelent
Source: Facebook

A South African husband had social media users in stitches with his lighthearted take on marriage responsibilities. Content creator @lebogang.prevelent, who regularly posts loving content with his wife, shared a video that sparked both laughter and discussions about partnership in relationships.

In the amusing clip, the content creator films his wife from behind as she carries multiple grocery bags through their yard toward their home. The video caption humorously addresses potential criticism:

"Then you'll hear someone asking why don't you help her kanjan when I am carrying the camera."

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The playful post clearly shows the couple's strong bond, as evident from their history of content showcasing their loving relationship. While the video pokes fun at traditional gender roles, it's clear from the creator's other posts that the couple shares a supportive partnership built on mutual respect and affection.

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Building strong partnerships in relationships

Successful relationships often thrive when couples view themselves as teammates rather than opponents. In modern relationships, the rigid division of tasks based solely on gender has evolved into more flexible arrangements that consider each partner's strengths, availability, and preferences.

When men and women work together in relationships, they can accomplish much more than when operating in isolation. Partners bring different perspectives, strengths, and approaches to problem-solving. This diversity of thought and experience creates a stronger foundation for navigating life's challenges together.

Healthy relationships involve mutual support and understanding of each other's needs. Whether it's sharing household responsibilities, making financial decisions, or supporting each other's personal growth, couples who collaborate create harmonious homes where both partners feel valued and respected.

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“Then you’ll hear someone asking why”: Gent shares why he can’t help wife carry groceries

Expert, Jayshri Rangasamy spoke to Briefly News, adding:

"Understanding and adapting to your partner's love language is crucial in strengthening emotional bonds. The five love languages—Words of affirmation, acts of service, receiving gifts, quality time, and physical touch—each represent different ways people express and receive love. Identifying your partner's primary love language allows for more meaningful interactions, reducing misunderstandings and fostering a deeper connection."

She emphasizes that in relationships,

"Consistent effort is key. Small, thoughtful gestures, active listening, and making time for each other go a long way in maintaining excitement and emotional intimacy. By prioritizing emotional connection and shared experiences, couples can keep their relationships vibrant and fulfilling."
A man's post went viral.
One gent shared a valid excuse for why he couldn't help his wife carry groceries. Images: @lebogang.prevelent
Source: Facebook

Social media reacts to the grocery dilemma

@MitShell Ngake offered a practical solution:

"Give mom Lavo the camera and you carry the grocery 😅"

@Manetja Tshinakaho joked about moving in:

"Adopt me I will sleep under the bed I will leave when the grocery is finished."

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@Pride Small suggested it was beneficial:

"Mmh that's part of exercise lavo🤣😂🤘"

@Anelissa B Mashaba playfully feigned concern:

"🥺Stop abusing my mom🤭❤️😅"

@Mmapula Shika agreed with the husband's logic:

"Kanjan vele🤣🤣🤣🤣part of exercise."

Other family moments capturing Mzansi's attention

  • Briefly News recently reported on a young lady who shared a hilarious video of her mother passionately praying in tongues by her bedroom door to ward off the spirit of having a boyfriend.
  • A little boy left his mother speechless when he boldly called her out for not having a car while they enjoyed ice cream at KFC.
  • One South African woman's pregnancy transformation video went viral as viewers were stunned by how dramatically her facial features changed throughout her journey.

Source: Briefly News

Authors:
Nerissa Naidoo avatar

Nerissa Naidoo (Human Interest Editor) Nerissa Naidoo is a writer and editor with seven years of experience. Currently, she is a human interest writer at Briefly News and joined the publication in 2024. She began her career contributing to Morning Lazziness and later joined Featherpen.org. As a TUW ghostwriter, she focused on non-fiction, while her editorial roles at National Today and Entail.ai honed her skills in content accuracy and expert-driven editing. You can reach her at nerissa.naidoo@briefly.co.za

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Jayshri Rangasamy (Medical Scientist - Pharmacologist - Clinical Team Lead) Jayshri Rangasamy leads Fortrea's Clinical Team, managing Clinical Operations Delivery. Her expertise spans non-infectious (cardiovascular, endocrinology, gastroenterology) and infectious diseases (tuberculosis, Ebola, COVID-19) plus oncology (lung cancer, hematologic malignancies). She holds MS and BS degrees in Pharmacology and Human Physiology from the University of Pretoria and promotes empathetic leadership. She is also a ballroom dancer and animal activist.