“She’s Strong”: Woman Speaks of Traumatising Marriage After Husband Divorced Her 4 Times, SA Reacts

“She’s Strong”: Woman Speaks of Traumatising Marriage After Husband Divorced Her 4 Times, SA Reacts

  • A woman who was married four times has shared her story of a toxic and abusive relationship in a podcast, leaving viewers deeply shocked and inspired by her resilience
  • The revealing clip was shared on a podcast's TikTok account, attracting massive views and comments from a wide online community
  • Social media users were stunned by her story, with many praising her strength and encouraging her not to return to the abusive relationship
The woman also said her husband would make her cook and throw the food in the dustbin without tasting it
A local woman detailed the trauma she suffered at the hands of her abusive husband while visiting a podcast. Image:@boldly_owamie
Source: TikTok

A woman's heartbreaking confession about her abusive marriages captured the hearts of social media users.

The revealing clip, shared on a podcast's TikTok account @boldly_owamie, was met with a mix of shock and admiration.

The video starts with the woman, who has been divorced multiple times, saying that most couples fight for serious things, but her husband used to pick fights for anything. She said he would instruct her to tell the helper to clean the fridge, and if she forgot to, he would insult her. She added that the man would call her name and sometimes even beat her up for no reason.

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The marriage from hell

The woman shared that when she looks back at her marriage, she does not get angry or hate the man. Instead, she gets angry at herself for staying through all the abuse. She said that after insulting or sometimes beating her up, he would make her cook and then take the food without tasting it and throw it in the bin. If she did not cook, he would call her mom and complain about her. She said he divorced her three times, and with the current pending divorce, it was her fourth.

Others found the host's facial expressions during the podcast hilarious
Social media users were shocked to hear that she went back to the man. Image: @boldly_owamie
Source: TikTok

SA reacts to the clip

The post gained massive views from users who filled the comment section expressing their shock at the lady's sad story. Many said they loved how bold and strong the woman was, wishing she wouldn't go back to him again. Some were keen to watch the whole podcast and asked for the lady's handle to follow her. Others said she was married to a narcissist, saying that after the first divorce, she should not have gon back to him.

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User @ramagomadarian said:

"She had to learn 4 times 😂."

User @Jowi added:

"Nna! I am not judging shame 🤞🏽, I have a story to tell 😂."

User @ReratiloeM shared:

"My queen takes the crown for being the most shocked host 🤣."

User @aya_ndima commented:

"Yoh! Amadoda akhohlakele (mn are cruel)😩."

User @Mosa said:

"I love her, she's strong and funny 😁."

User @Banzai asked:

"After the first divorce, why did she go back for the second time?"

Watch the TikTok video below:

3 Briefly News articles about marriages ending

  • A woman visited a podcast to share the story of how her ex-husband, whom she gave money to pay for her lobola, plotted to drain her finances with his baby mama.
  • An emotional woman detailed her husband's infidelity, claiming he left two months after they got married and had not been back.
  • A heartbroken wife shared a post about the end of her 16-year marriage after her husband left her for another woman, and Mzansi rallied to comfort her.

Source: Briefly News

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Bongiwe Mati (Human Interest Editor) Bongiwe Mati is a Human Interest reporter who joined Briefly News in August 2024. She holds a Bachelor of Arts Honours degree from the University of the Western Cape. Her journalism journey began in 2005 at the university newspaper. She later transitioned to marketing and sales at Leadership Magazine under Cape Media (2007-2009). In 2023, she joined BONA magazine as an Editorial Assistant, contributing to digital and print platforms across current news, entertainment, and human interest categories. Bongiwe can be reached at bongiwe.mati@briefly.co.za