“Proverbs Woman”: Woman Shares Words She Never Uses to Her Husband to Show Respect, SA Impressed
- A local wife went viral after detailing the strict communication boundaries she maintains to preserve the bond and respect within her marriage, with a focus on how these practices contribute to marital harmony
- The video was shared on TikTok, where she opened up about the spiritual and emotional weight of the words spoken between partners, offering personal insights into her marital approach
- Social media users overwhelmingly supported her perspective, with many praising her maturity and labelling her a wise woman for her approach to marital harmony
Source: TikTok
A dedicated wife inspired thousands online by sharing the intentional steps she takes to build her husband up through mindful communication.
The clip shared on TikTok by user @mrs.khoabane garnered massive views from an online community that resonated with her traditional yet empowering marriage advice.
In the video, @mrs.khoabane explains that she avoids using terms like ‘never’ or ‘always’ during disagreements to ensure she addresses the situation rather than attacking her husband’s character. She refuses to refer to her husband as a child, noting that ‘mothering’ a spouse destroys the respect required to see him as a king.
Building a king through mindful speech
Furthermore, TikTok user @mrs.khoabane emphasises that she never compares him to other men or uses his private vulnerabilities as a weapon during conflicts. Having admitted to being subtly rude in their early years, she credits her growth to becoming a student of her partner and recognising that her tongue has the power to either build or destroy his spirit.
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Source: TikTok
SA applauds the mature marital advice
The video triggered a wave of positive reactions, with many followers asking her to host seminars to teach these principles to other women. Several users commented that her views were in line with the traditional wisdom passed down by their mothers and grandmothers regarding submissiveness and respect. Some noted that reaching such a high level of maturity takes time and patience; the consensus was that her advice is important for healthy modern relationships. Other viewers expressed a desire to reach her level of intentionality, calling her a true inspiration for the next generation of wives.
User @user8145734272361 comemnted
"You're a wise woman. Please consider conducting seminars for women. Eish, this '50/50, I'm an independent woman, I can do without a man' is really killing our women."
User @thapza added:
"Proveb woman 👏."
User @Matsoso Thathane said:
"Moral of the story is, never fit a man where it hurts the most."
User @Pokky shared:
"I am Motswana, and what you are saying is what my grandmother and my mother taught us. My husband is my king, and I am his suitable helper."
User @Mrs S commented:
"This level of maturity and submissiveness. It takes time, and one day I'll get there. I guess I only respect him in public everywhere, even in the presence of his family."
User @Mrs Aruya | Leah-Licious-cakes said:
"The more mindful we are as husbands and wives, the more peace there is."
Watch the TikTok video below:
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Source: Briefly News
