Ntsiki Mazwai Gushes Over Ntando Duma and Hubby Una Rams: “She Is His Boss”

• Outspoken South African media personality Ntsiki Mazwai reacted to a video of Ntando Duma and her husband, Una Rams
• The couple was gushing over one another in a Q&A for Batswadi Magazine, where they spoke about their lives as new parents
• Ntsiki Mazwai's sentiments sparked a discussion online, with people offering their mixed opinions
• Briefly News spoke to a relationship expert, Paula Quinsee, who shed light on privacy and its importance in a relationship

Controversial poet and activist Ntsiki Mazwai recently relayed her thoughts about the newest Mzansi celebrity couple, Ntando Duma and Una Rams.

The couple recently graced the cover of Batswadi as they announced their latest addition to their family - a baby girl. The doting lovebirds also did a short Q&A with the magazine, where they spoke about their love and music tastes.

Reacting to the video, the poet reckoned that Ntando is the boss in the marriage. She also noted how soft Una is around Ntando, saying their relationship is very adorable.

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"This man is very soft for her. It's adorable. She is his boss," Ntsiki responded.

Check out her X post below:

Ntando Duma recently went on podcasts and revealed more aspects of their relationship. This opened the door for public scrutiny, and it was not pretty.

Relationship therapist and educator Paula Quinsee shared with Briefly News why celebrity couples need to keep certain aspects of their lives private.

"Couples can control the narrative by sharing only what they want known, and make use of their personal platforms to provide context," she said.

Quinsee added that letting a certain narrative go on for a long period can have negative effects on a relationship.

Netizens reacted to the video, offering mixed opinions about Ntando Duma and her husband:

@Magnitoe reacted:

"This guy knows why he bagged her as a wife."

@FMoyana64128 stated:

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"Venda guys are the "Creme de la Creme" of men, we have to protect them."

@Nicolo668063258 shared:

"Deep down, women don’t like weak men. They will use and control a weak man until a strong man who want to come along."

@AGM_marketing1 reacted:

"I think it's true love indeed."

@Hoecutter gushed:

"Limpopo has the highest number of stepfathers. Love this for our brothers. Understanding Gents."

@MYKAPTENI claimed:

"She'll get tired soon and start craving the guidance of a real masculine man. She'll miss the peace of resting in her femininity. History has proven it time and time again."

@Thapelo20148801 asked:

"I thought sometimes a man needs to be stupid, Nyana, so that a relationship works."

How long did Ntando and Una date before marriage?

Ntando Duma and Una Rams kept their fairytale away from social media until their intimate traditional wedding in December 2024 and their whimsical wedding a few months later.

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The couple has been in the spotlight since revealing that they welcomed a new addition to their family in a recent interview. They also opened up about how they met and how long they dated before taking their relationship to the next level.

The Shaka iLembe actress revealed that after five weeks of talking, Una asked her to be his girlfriend during a game they played. After five months of dating, Una sent the lobola letter to Ntando's family.

Ntando Duma drags single fathers

In a previous report from Briefly News, the Shaka iLembe actress shot up the trends list after her interview on The L-Tido Podcast on 20 August 2025. While there, the actress said she wouldn't give a single dad the time of day, that time she has a child.

"I've never dated a man with a child, and I had a child. It's a preference thing, it's not about being selfish. I don't prefer it, and that's that, so I won't go for those people. There are too many people in the world, so I didn't want someone with a child, not because I hated their children or wouldn't know what to do with them."

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This sparked a mix of reactions, with people slamming Ntando and making fun of Una. She further stated, "It was just a preference thing, and I have a right to have preferences on who I want to date. The same way women say they want a man with a car, same for me; I would have never dated a man with a child, for my own reasons."

Source: Briefly News