Nadia Nakai Discusses Relationship With Toss and Finally Moving On From AKA
- Rapper Nadia Nakai finally lifted the lid on her steamy romance with fellow musician, Toss
- During a recent interview, she explained what her new chapter means to her after being seen as a perpetual widow following her late boyfriend AKA's death, saying she was ready to move on
- Her statements, however, were met with a cocktail of reactions from fans who thought she should have worded them more appropriately, and those who supported her decision to move on
- Briefly News got in touch with a relationship expert, who shed light on the challenges of moving on
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Nadia Nakai is finally trading her grief for a new kind of glow. After years of being defined by her loss following her late boyfriend AKA's death, the rapper and reality TV star has gone public with her romance with Umlando hitmaker, Toss.
The Really? rapper opened up about her new relationship and finally finding the strength to move on, during her appearance on the latest episode of the L-Tido Podcast.
Ahead of the premiere, which is scheduled for 4 pm on 4 March 2026, L-Tido shared a preview of their conversation, during which Bragga finally confirmed that she's dating Toss after flaunting their romance online.
"Toss is my baby, I love him so much."
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Nadia opened up about the pressure of being stuck in a cycle of mourning, noting that while the world sees her as a widow, she wasn't a wife and deserves the chance to live her own life again.
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She dated AKA from early 2022 until his death in February 2023, and pointed out the reality that her late partner has now been gone longer than the actual duration of their relationship. Reinforcing her own identity, she reminded fans that while her time with Kiernan was significant, it does not define her entire existence.
"I’m still Nadia Nakai, and was always Nadia Nakai before, and I will be Nadia Nakai after Kiernan."
Addressing the negative reactions to her love life from AKA's fanbase, Nadia said she simply didn't want to be in this life alone, stating, "I don’t want to spend the rest of my life loving a ghost."
Bragga finally emphasised that while she will always love the late rapper, she was ready to move on.
Watch Nadia Nakai's video below.
Expert tackles the challenges of moving on
Moving on is rarely a linear process; it often feels like a tug-of-war between the comfort of the past and the uncertainty of the future.
Relationship expert and founder of Engaged Humans, Paula Quinsee, tells Briefly News that stepping back into the dating world can be clouded by awkwardness or even a sense of guilt. However, she says, the key to true healing lies in "finding a balance between honouring your history and remaining open to new connections."
It’s important to acknowledge that you had a past and that you shared a life with someone who has both positive memories and potentially lessons learned, too. This can also help you identify what you want in future relationships.
Social media reacts to Nadia Nakai's interview
Fans praised Nadia's honesty and reinforced her decision to finally move on. Read some of their comments below.
leboo_taurus said:
"She deserves happiness."
onika_empress_kemet_ra admired Nadia Nakai:
"Nadia is realest in her truth always loves her for that."
thinggtu wrote:
"My wish from the start has always been for people to award Nadia grace when she was ready to move on. It would be ridiculous to keep her tied to someone that isn’t here anymore. You’re doing great, mamas, can't wait to watch this."
affectionate_venom defended Nadia Nakai:
"I mean, if she wasn’t married to bro she can do whatever she wants it’s been a while it’s not that deep."
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Meanwhile, others felt Nadia Nakai was disrespectful in referring to her late boyfriend as a "ghost."
nkatixenia said:
"Choice of words! 'Loving a ghost.'"
kichief_86 suggested:
"Should've picked her words better."
tumie_leigh was shocked:
"Ahh, Nadia did you have to call him a ghost?"
tamia_ayandaa asked:
"Did she just say Supa Mega is a ghost?"
On the other hand, several others, including interviewer L-Tido, seemingly alluded to Toss being a downgrade for Nadia after her high-profile relationship with AKA. However, it's clear from her message that finally freeing herself from the grief and the widow label is worth more to her than any public perception.
Nadia Nakai slams Prince Kaybee
In more Nadia Nakai updates, Briefly News shared online reactions to the rapper's heated back-and-forth with Prince Kaybee.
After the DJ trolled her new relationship, Bragga clapped back by revisiting his controversial past.
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Moroba Moroeng (Entertainment editor) Moroba Maepa (née Moroeng) is the Deputy Head of the Entertainment desk at Briefly News, with nearly a decade of experience in South African media. A specialist in music and entertainment journalism, she began her career at Slikour OnLife before serving as Editor for HipHop Africa. A University of Johannesburg alumna and Google News Initiative certified professional, Moroba joined Briefly News in 2023, where she focuses on editorial excellence and leadership, merging her passion for entertainment with her love for storytelling. Email: moroba.moroeng@briefly.co.za
Paula Quinsee (Certified Relationship Therapy Educator and founder of Engaged Humans) Paula Quinsee is the founder of Engaged Humans, facilitating connection between individuals and organisations to create a more human-connected world. She is a certified Imago Relationship Therapy educator and facilitator, NLP practitioner, PDA analyst, coach and trainer. Paula is also the author of two self-help guides - Embracing Conflict and Embracing No - as well as an international speaker, advocate for mental health and activist for gender-based violence.
