'Izingane Zes'thembu' star Tirelo Kale shares pictures from lobola ceremony with Mpumelelo Mseleku

'Izingane Zes'thembu' star Tirelo Kale shares pictures from lobola ceremony with Mpumelelo Mseleku

  • Sbindi Mseleku paid lobola for his long-term partner and baby mama, Tirelo Kale, on Thursday, 3 September 2026
  • Fans noticed that Sbindi's mother, MaYeni, attended the ceremony, sparking a debate about Zulu cultural customs
  • Mzansi congratulated Tirelo while questioning whether MaYeni skipped Amahle Biyela's lobola negotiations
Tirelo shared images from her lobola ceremony.
'Izingane Zes'thembu' star Tirelo Kale posted pictures from her lobola with partner Mpumelelo Mseleku. Image: mis_kale
Source: Instagram

Tirelo Kale's lobola ceremony has set Mzansi's social media alight, and not just because of the happy news. The reality TV star confirmed on Instagram on Thursday, 3 September 2026, that Sbindi Mseleku had paid lobola for her, sharing photos from what appeared to be a warm and celebratory gathering.

But fans quickly zeroed in on one particular guest: MaYeni, Sbindi's mother, whose presence at the proceedings sparked a whole separate conversation.

The milestone is significant for those who have followed the couple's journey. Sbindi, the son of polygamist Musa Mseleku, had earlier paid lobola for Amahle Biyela, also the mother of his child, before formalising things with Tirelo. That sequence of events left many fans puzzled at the time, and the debate has only resurfaced now that Tirelo has her own ceremony to celebrate.

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MaYeni's appearance raises questions

What caught many commenters off guard was the apparent confirmation that MaYeni attended Tirelo's lobola negotiations. Some fans claimed she had not been present at Amahle's ceremony, and her appearance here fuelled a wider debate about whether it is culturally appropriate in Zulu tradition for the groom's mother to attend lobola proceedings at all. Others, however, simply celebrated the moment, seeing it as a blessing for Tirelo and the Mseleku family's acceptance of her.

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Despite the cultural debate swirling in the comments, the overall tone leaned celebratory, with fans pouring love on Tirelo's look and wishing her well.

Tirelo Kale posted pictures from her lobola.
'Izingane Zes'thembu' reality TV star Tirelo Kale shared pictures from her lobola ceremony. Image: mis_kale
Source: UGC

Below are some of the reactions from Mzansi:

@lussy_lupindo: "Congratulations 😍😍😍🔥🔥🔥"

@dearbheki: "mei chomi 😍😍😍"

@gillianvuyolwethu: "You blessed the 'Mother-in-law ' attended the Lobola negotiations 🙇🏼‍♀️🙇🏼‍♀️🙇🏼‍♀️🫠🫠❤️❤️❤️ Congratulations 'Bangwana Baka'❤️🥰"

@naledi_souls: "Congratulations baby ❤️"

@palesa_shabangu: "Congratulations, ngwanyana. 🥹😍 So happy for you."

@thati_22: "Oh banyana baka 😍😍😍 Congratulations! ❤️"

@onakoloane: "Congratulations, my babes! 😍❤️🎊🥂"

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Jessica Gcaba (Entertainment editor) Jessica Gcaba is an Entertainment Editor for Briefly News (joined in 2023). She is a Journalism graduate from the Durban University of Technology (2019). She has 7 years of experience as an Entertainment and Lifestyle Journalist, having worked at Africa New Media Group, writing for ZAlebs website. She passed a set of training from the Google News Initiative. To reach her, contact: jessica.gcaba@briefly.co.za