MaKhumalo Says She Is Choosing Herself in Viral Video, Mzansi Reacts

MaKhumalo Says She Is Choosing Herself in Viral Video, Mzansi Reacts

  • MaKhumalo posted a selfie-style video from inside a moving car on Sunday, 20 September 2026, telling fans she is now prioritising herself
  • The Uthando Nes'thembu star added the Zulu phrase 'Ngidedeleni,' meaning 'Let me go,' sparking speculation about her marriage to Musa Mseleku
  • Fans and followers flooded the comments with support for the reality TV personality's message of self-love
MaKhumalo hinted at choosing herself.
MaKhumalo wants to make herself a priority. Image: thobilek
Source: Instagram

Uthando Nes'thembu reality TV star MaKhumalo has set tongues wagging after sharing a selfie-style video from inside a moving car, telling her followers she is done putting herself last. The clip, posted on Instagram on Sunday, 20 September 2026, quickly spread across social media as fans tried to read between the lines of her message.

Filmed with a sunroof open against a backdrop of rolling green hills, MaKhumalo spoke directly to the camera in a candid, upbeat tone. She told viewers she had grown tired of having to repeatedly reassure people that she is alive and well every time she posts online, and that she has decided to do something for herself.

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"For once, I'm choosing to do something for myself and to myself. I'm sure as a human being, I'm allowed to be selfish," she said in the video.

MaKhumalo's post sparks breakup rumours

What sent fans into a frenzy was her follow-up message, where she said she is "transitioning" and becoming a better version of herself, signing off with "Focusing on me from now on. Please, ngidedeleni" — Zulu for "Let me go."

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Many followers immediately read the statement as a hint that MaKhumalo may be distancing herself from her marriage to polygamist Musa Mseleku, whose family is at the centre of the Mzansi Magic show. She is his third wife out of five, and their relationship has been a focal point of drama throughout the series, largely because MaKhumalo is the only wife in the household who has not had children with Mseleku — a tension that has played out repeatedly on screen.

Watch MaKhumalo's viral video here.

Mzansi floods the comments with support

The reactions poured in thick and fast, with most followers firmly in MaKhumalo's corner:

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@mzolo_makhosi wrote:

"She's even wearing a fashion ring 👀 baby girl is really choosing herself fr fr 🥵🔥"

@_promisem_ said:

"Uzo phela in this life if you don't decide to choose SELF!! Peace chomee❤️"

@princymdlalo added:

"Well done, do you…always! 'Qala ngawe' ❤️🔥"

@aviwe_funani said:

"Gurllll you don't even know how many people pray for and over you in Jesus name. ❤️"

@suhngbebe commented:

"I love you more, Mommaa❤️. You are super glowing, honey❤️"

@mvexx quipped:

"Eyindlini e'yellow😂😂😂😂 Love you dzown!❤️"

@dakalo_thathana simply said:

"Owh maaan I love you so much"
MaKhumalo is choosing herself.
MaKhumalo has hinted at choosing herself. Image: thobilek
Source: Instagram

Musa officiates wedding

In a previous report from Briefly News, Musa Mseleku stepped behind the pulpit to officiate a wedding ceremony at a MultiChoice event linked to Married at First Sight.

The 52-year-old Uthando Nes'thembu star said the evening was one of the greatest he had experienced watching couples celebrate love.

Source: Briefly News

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Jessica Gcaba (Entertainment editor) Jessica Gcaba is an Entertainment Editor for Briefly News (joined in 2023). She is a Journalism graduate from the Durban University of Technology (2019). She has 7 years of experience as an Entertainment and Lifestyle Journalist, having worked at Africa New Media Group, writing for ZAlebs website. She passed a set of training from the Google News Initiative. To reach her, contact: jessica.gcaba@briefly.co.za