“I Was at a Baby Shower Once Like This”: SA Woman Spots One Thing That Gives Away Afrikaans Wedding

• A woman shared a funny TikTok about what she witnessed at an Afrikaans wedding
• The viral moment also shines a light on rugby's cultural significance for Afrikaners
• Mzansi flooded the comments with hilarious stories of seeing the same thing at weddings and other family gatherings

A wedding guest just noted how she knows for sure she's attending an Afrikaans wedding. Mzansi weighed in with their own relatable stories.

While Afrikaans culture is known for many standout traditions, one woman pointed out what she believes is an unmistakable staple. In a TikTok video posted by @petrumarie on 5 June 2026, the woman asks viewers how they would know they are attending an Afrikaans wedding. Moments later, the camera pans to a rugby game playing in the background, revealing her answer.

"How do you know it's an Afrikaans wedding..."

How rugby became a part of Afrikaans culture

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Although rugby started in England and was closely linked to British culture, many Afrikaners embraced the sport and turned it into something that reflected their own identity. Instead of creating a completely new cultural tradition, they adapted a game they were already good at.

Rugby appealed to Afrikaners because it matched the qualities they admired, such as strength, toughness, courage and determination. While the British viewed rugby as a sport that taught fair play and gentlemanly behaviour, many Afrikaners focused more on its physical nature and saw it as a way to show resilience and pride.

As Afrikaner nationalism grew, rugby became more than just a game. It became a symbol of their identity and their desire to stand apart from British influence. Unlike other Commonwealth countries that still embraced their ties to Britain, many Afrikaners used Springbok rugby to express national pride and, over time, as a quiet challenge to British dominance.

View the TikTok video below:

South Africans shared their own experiences

Many viewers had their own stories to tell about how far they've taken the love for the sport. This is what Mzansi had to say on @petrumarie's page:

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ossie said:

"Do you know how many times I've had to watch the Boks on my phone at weddings?"

Simone Thomson said:

"The rugby was on at my wedding 😂"

Debra said:

"We didn't have a TV at the venue, everyone gathered by our phone instead😅"

Birdie added:

"I was at a baby shower once like this😂😂"

C v Rooyen commented:

"✨️prioriteite ✨️" (Priorities)

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Source: Briefly News