Woman Takes Off Wedding Rings After 13 Years of Marriage and 3 Children, Mzansi Applauds TikToker

• A failed marriage used to be seen as a bad thing but nowadays, people are applauded for separating amicably
• A woman was hailed by social media users after she recorded herself taking off her three wedding bands after 13 years of marriage
• Peeps said it was good that she decided to leave while she was still alive, others even shared their heartbreaking divorce stories

Divorce is never a good thing but people seem to be celebrating it more and more. Netizens feel that it is better to leave the marriage while you are still healthy than to leave it in a body bag.

People used to stay in love-less marriages for the sake of titles but not anymore.

Mzansi woman takes off wedding rings in viral TikTok video

A woman was hailed by her TikTok followers when she posted a video taking off her wedding rings. The TikToker with the handle @u_mamcete was praised for putting herself and her sanity first. She captioned the video:

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"13 years later, three beautiful kids. It is well."

Take a look:

Five Love Languages

There are five love languages:

Words of affirmation

Quality time

Physical touch

Acts of service

Receiving gifts

Speaking to Briefly News, Penny Holburn, a life, career and business coach, said it's important that couples know each other's love languages.

"I have seen people heartbroken in relationships because they don’t know what the other truly wants. "

Holburn said many relationship problems happen because people have different ideas of what love is.

"One partner will say - you don’t show love to me. The other will say - but I do this and this for you. For the one person doing x means they are showing love. For the other partner it is not showing love. Two people can say love is important in a relationship.

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But each may have a very different idea of what demonstrating love is. "Knowing the love language of your partner is a very good way of knowing how your efforts to show love will be seen as love," Holburn added.

Mzansi applauds the woman and shares their heartwarming divorce stories

The TikTok user is not the only one going through marital problems. Netizens flooded her comments section with their stories of divorce and breakup.

@BalanceMaintained said:

"9 years of marriage... 5 children and 28 weeks pregnant - going through a divorce.... It's hard but I've accepted it now."

@Sassy_Zungu wrote:

"Yesterday I was finalizing a divorce in court for 10 years of marriage with 3 kids. Life..."

@Nella88$ commented:

"I'm in the process of leaving after 12yrs with 4boys for him...he shut me out cos he has made money and all of a sudden I'm not worth it anymore."

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@Lolo noted:

"You are not the only one. Mina after 12 years with 2 kids..... I am a return soldier as well."

@Joaly_mn added:

"I did this 2yrs ago; I Ended 18yr marriage. My 3 kids are getting on ok. It gets better with time. Ur peace is worth it. Don’t look back."

@Vuyokazi Mafaku Mame wrote:

"15yrs of my life and 3 boys but life goes on."

@leratomamaile696 said:

"l ended my marriage of 3yrs because of my sanity & happiness of me & my kids mattered most. I thank God every day for giving me another chance in life."

@Elizabeth Mary Ndura commented:

"It was 14 years and three kids and is well. Never been this better. God will give you strength."

@ added:

"Love and light to you mommy. I left in just 4months of engagement. Lena le stronger than me. "

Woman closes Woolworths account after 13 years of spending, Mzansi applauds TikTokker: “Leadership”

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In more news, Briefly News reported that buying on credit is now always an option. One woman had a Woolworths account for 13 years and recently decided to cut it up.

Times are tough, and many people can only get through the month with the help of accounts and credit facilities. This woman felt it was time to regain control and end spending on credit.

Woolworths is seen as a luxury shop to many, but this lady felt her time of buying there on credit had ended after 13 long years. TikTok user @zikhanyemgase shared a video of her cutting up her Woolies account card after closing it, and while it was a tough decision, it felt good.

Source: Briefly News