Durban Woman Marries Policeman 1 Year After Chatting in DMs, TikTok Video Has Ladies Gushing Over Cop Mjolo

• A dame from KZN revealed that she met her cop husband in the DMs and got married
• Her post showed that they dated for one year before getting hitched and had a baby in the process
• Netizens are hopeful for the future and sharing the positives and negatives of being in relationships with a police officer
• The young woman told Briefly News that happiness for other women may lie with cops

A Durban woman married a cop after meeting in the DMs and her story has netizens talking about how loving cop men are. The woman’s story is almost a fairytale, considering how people are generally sceptical of responding to DMs.

Woman from KZN finds love in the DMs

@bhelekazi_sphesihle posted on TikTok and her video was viewed 653K times. Her clip is a combination of pictures that tell a story. According to her post, she replied to that first DM in 2021 and in 2022, they got married. The couple is also blessed with a beautiful baby.

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Woman talks to Briefly News about her relationship with the cop

Sphesihle Bhelekazi told Briefly News that her an hubby started chatting in September 2021 and agreed to date after they first met in October.

"I got pregnant at the beginning of March, and we had our lobola negotiations and engagement on 15 October 2022. Our son was born on 1 December.

"Women have reservations about dating policemen due to what they have heard, like cases of abuse and murder. That's understandable, but many more cases of people in different professions committing murder and crimes against women.

"My husband is a marshmallow, is family-oriented, and is never involved in violence. He protects me and his family at all costs. His character matters the most to me, and I hope that other women can look past the stigma surrounding policemen and look within. Their happiness may lie there," Sphesihle said.

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Briefly News has covered several stories about couples that met online and went on to get married. Watch the video here:

Netizens show support for relationships with cops

Netizens came out to support the couple and share their views on being in relationships with policemen. They also have hope to find find love online.

MissKay13 is one of those experiencing a relationship with a cop.

“Babes, they have so much love. I’m currently dating one. It feels like I’m in the honeymoon phase every day.”

Bhelekazi_siphesihle replied:

“They treat you like an egg, like a fragile dish.”

Maphakathi remarked:

“This all happened under three years. I hope we’re taking notes, ladies.”

Precious msie is also seeing a policeman.

“I’m currently dating a policeman. He has so much love. I’m hoping for the best.”

Lelo shared:

“Congratulations, sis. I love this. There’s a human being behind any profession. My man is a police officer and the sweetest guy ever.”

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1991_bbe exclaimed:

“I’ve been with my policeman since 2015. The love overflows. Three years in marriage now.”

Miracle blessed them.

“Congratulations, Nan. Take care of him, and ask God to lead your marriage. Fast once a week and pray for your union.”

Geena Hlatshwayo was not as fortunate.

“Our stories are not the same. I once dated a cop. A nightmare.”

Sharon Dube wrote:

“Love this for you. Personally I’m scared of dating cops. What if he gets mad and he shoots me?”

Bhelekazi_sphesihle responded with wisdom:

“Thank you, but anyone can get mad and kill you. Don’t let someone’s profession fool you. A serial killer can be in a suit and not a uniform.”

Woman gets married after responding to 1 DM

In a similar story, Briefly News reported that a woman responded to a DM and got married shortly afterwards.

The woman shared a TikTok video of how she is now happy with the man she snatched from the DMs. Women in the comment section expressed their hopes for the future and for answering DMs.

Source: Briefly News