Woman Films “Frustrating” Date to Thembisa, TikTok Video of Her 7th Date in 2025 Amuses SA

Woman Films “Frustrating” Date to Thembisa, TikTok Video of Her 7th Date in 2025 Amuses SA

  • One lady in search of a partner showed people the romantic outing that a man took her on and it was a spectacle
  • The woman posted a TikTok video where she documented the entire night that she spent with the potential suitor
  • People shared their thoughts about the woman's experience and many were brutally honest as they reviewed the date

A woman posted a TikTok video of one of her date nights. The lady trying to find love in 2025 shared details about the time she spent with a man.

Woman shared TikTok video of date in Thembisa
A woman posted a TikTok video detailing her date in Thembisa. Image: @chocolateyxaf / TikTok / Leon Neal / Getty Images
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The video of the woman's questionable date received more than 6,000 likes. People had a lot to say after seeing that she ended up in Thembisa after going out with the man.

Woman complains about date

A woman, Aphelele Mkhize, posted a TikTok video showing the harrowing date that she went on. First, the lady detailed that the man who took her out was severely late for their date and showed up when she was about to cancel. The man came to the date dressed in pink crocs, which she didn't like. Aphelele detailed that it was his birthday week and he wanted to have a night out clubbing, so he took her to a chill spot where his friends were and he ordered them pap, and then to another shisa nyama in Thembisa. After the first stop, he decided that they would go out to a club.

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The lady said she felt like he liked her a lot because he held her hand, but she was unimpressed because they were in the car for most of the date as they went from one location to the next. The man also dedicated Fridayy's When It Comes to You which many found ironic because the chorus is about not wasting a woman's time which he did by being late for the date.

South Africa unimpressed by Tembisa date

Many people commented on the post insisting that he did not take her out on a proper date. Online users were not happy with the man's choice of location being Thembisa for a date.

TikToker was unhappy they went to a shisa nyama for their Thembisa date
The lady in the TikTok video complained that he took her to a shisa nyama for their date in Tembisa. Image: Hoberman Collection
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Cheneeks was amused:

"Him playing I' won’t waste no time ,when it comes you' whilst wasting your time is diabolical 😭"

Thams asked:

"He bought more pap?! Sisi, please repeat that one more time for me."

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Kwanele 🍸 was not impressed:

"Crocs?😭😂Thembisa?😳nka siya yooooh (I'd leave.)."

ours_🤍🌸 jokingly asked:

"Ngikshaye?😭(Should I beat you [for staying])"

ntombi khalumba remarked:

"He made you stocko chomi🚮

BeingNaledi admitted:

"Him adding pap infuriated me in a way I can’t even explain "

AsiFit wondered:

"Why didn’t you go home?"

Elastic_heart❤️‍🔥 commented:

"The song dedication song had me yelling 😭"

Figlan Siphokazi admitted:

"He was late, took you to Thembisa and came wearing crocs. That would pmo for the whole year ? 😭"

4 Women share date experiences

  • One lady showed that signing up for Tinder was worth it, and Briefly News reported that she was whisked away on a lavish date with a romantic man.
  • Tinder does not always bring good tidings and one woman shared her hellish experience after trying to find love on the dating app.
  • One woman was on a date and made it clear she was in no mood to split the bill in a dramatic TikTok video.
  • A date doesn't always need two people, and one woman made an effort to go on a solo date but one stranger wasn't having it.

Source: Briefly News

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Rutendo Masasi (Weekend Entertainment and Human Interest editor) Rue Masasi is a Human Interest and Entertainment writer at Briefly News who graduated with a BA (Hons) in English from Rhodes University in 2018. Rue also has 2 years of experience in journalism and over four years of experience as an online ESL teacher. She has also passed a set of trainings by Google News Initiative. You can reach her via email: rutendo.masasi@briefly.co.za

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