“I’m Disappointed, Sies!”: Woman Keys Boyfriend’s Car After Not Receiving Valentine’s Gift

• A shocking TikTok video shows a woman vandalizing her boyfriend's car with keys and lipstick after he allegedly failed to get her a Valentine's Day gift
• Content creator @latty.matty revealed that he had purchased a drone for his girlfriend, but she continued damaging the vehicle even after learning about the surprise
• The dramatic incident sparked intense debate online, with many South Africans condemning the destructive reaction while others questioned the nature of their relationship

A Valentine's Day surprise turned sour when a woman was captured on video damaging her boyfriend's car after believing he hadn't gotten her a gift. Content creator @latty.matty shared footage of the incident on TikTok, showing his girlfriend keying his vehicle and writing words like "cheap" across the sides and bonnet with red lipstick.

Watch the TikTok video below.

Woman's reaction raises eyebrows

The viral video shows @latty.matty attempting to restrain his girlfriend as she proceeds to vandalize his car, a far cry from the traditional expressions of love associated with Valentine's Day.

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While February 14th has historically been celebrated as a day of romance since the Middle Ages, with lovers exchanging tokens of affection and handwritten notes, this particular couple's celebration took an unexpected turn. Despite the man's revelation that he had purchased a drone as her Valentine's gift, she continued causing damage to the vehicle, claiming it was too late.

The incident contrasts the holiday's origins, which date back to the third century when Saint Valentine himself was said to have written the first Valentine's letter to his jailor's daughter.

Expert Jayshri Rangasamy spoke to Briefly News, noting that understanding personality types can significantly impact communication in relationships. She explained:

"The four general personality types—Analytical, Driver, Expressive, and Amiable, each with distinct characteristics. Individuals can also exhibit a combination of these types.

She went on to explain each type:

Analytical individuals are thoughtful and reliable, valuing logic and structure; it is best to provide thorough explanations and respect their need for organization. Amiable people prioritize harmony and connection, being empathetic and supportive; approach them with friendliness, encourage open dialogue, and handle disagreements gently. Drivers are decisive and proactive, often leading in planning and decision-making; communicate directly and concisely, showing confidence and focusing on results. Expressive individuals bring enthusiasm and energy, making interactions lively; engage them with spontaneity, visuals, and stories"

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Rangasamy suggests that in this case, the woman may exhibit strong 'Driver' personality traits, which means she values decisiveness and direct communication.

"A ‘Driver’ personality is naturally proactive and assertive, making indirect communication ineffective. Her frustration and subsequent actions indicate a need for upfront communication. Presenting her gift immediately could have prevented the situation," she explained.

This highlights how tailoring communication styles to a partner’s personality can enhance understanding, prevent misunderstandings, and foster stronger emotional connections.

SA weighs in on Valentine's drama

The incident sparked mixed reactions from social media users, with many expressing disapproval of the destructive behaviour:

@BT gushed:

"I'm disappointed. Sies Lucy!"

@KgadiYaBakone❤️ wrote:

"😂😂 The car was going in for a spray paint vele... Le dlala ka rona."

@Autumn🍁 commented:

"Just came from part 3 and guys, it's not continent it's realll😭😭😭"

@Goddess💫 noted:

"Uthi lo omunye 'dude this is trazy' 🥴"

@ZenobiaIsaacs stated:

"😫 This is disappointingly disgusting Hai Hai gapa! She is legit one of the reasons why female besties have a bad name guys understand even as a best friend boundaries, and lines matter this is toxic."

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Other Valentine's Day stories

• Briefly News recently reported on a single woman's unusual request for couples to share their love this Valentine's Day which had Mzansi questioning if the spirit of romance should extend beyond couples.
• Hearts melted across South Africa when a Sixty60 delivery man turned a routine drop-off into a fairytale moment with an unexpected Valentine's proposal that nobody saw coming.
• Social media can't stop talking about a young brother's detailed Valentine's gift preparation that's setting new standards for romantic gestures in modern relationships.

Source: Briefly News