“That Ain’t Your Man, Girl”: Angry Woman Confronts Hun at Moja Café Over Her Man, SA Chimes In

• A lady at a restaurant in Johannesburg was not having it with a hun who allegedly came on to her man
• The woman confronted the stunner in the eatery, and the TikTok video went viral online
• South Africans were shocked as they flooded the comments section, sharing their thoughts on the ladies' interaction
• Briefly News spoke to relationship expert and Founder of Engaged Humans, Paula Quinsee, about the healthiest ways to address suspected infidelity

A dramatic scene unfolded at a local restaurant in Johannesburg when an angry woman publicly confronted another woman, accusing her of interfering in her relationship.

Woman causes scene at restaurant

The tense moment was captured by the hun whom the lady confronted, and she shared the video online under the handle @justt_coco on TikTok.

In the clip, the lady can be seen walking straight up to @justt_coco. Without hesitation, the woman confronted @justt_coco, demanding she, “Leave her man alone”. @justt_coco was taken aback by the lady's courageous spirit, which frightened her.

All @justt_coco could do was apologise to the lady, who was visibly upset and raising her voice. The hun appeared shocked but kept her composure during the heated exchange. While taking to her TikTok caption, @justt_coco said the following:

"Omg, never going to Moja Café again."

South Africans quickly weighed in, with many supporting the woman’s boldness, while others questioned whether the public outburst was necessary. Some speculated that the man might have been cheating, although the full story behind the altercation remains unclear.

The video went viral online, gathering loads of views along with thousands of likes and comments within two days of its publication.

Watch the clip of the lady being confronted below:

Healthiest ways to address suspected infidelity

While speaking to Briefly News, relationship expert and Founder of Engaged Humans, Paula Quinsee, shared tips on the healthiest ways to address suspected infidelity, stating that, although infidelity is suspected, it’s important to approach the situation with care, avoiding public confrontation or escalation. "Ideally, the accusations should be supported by facts or evidence, rather than assumptions."

"Communication is crucial, and it’s best to approach the person calmly, expressing your concerns without making outright accusations. Keeping emotionally regulated during the conversation and ask open-ended questions to gain deeper understanding is the best approach in this situation. Ensure both parties prioritise transparency and honesty in discussing the situation and concerns, while at the same time being prepared to listen to each other’s perspective."

She added:

"If both parties are unable to have this conversation camply, it is recommended they seek professional help to provide a safe space to discuss feelings and work through the issues together. It’s recommended to avoid public scenes or gossip and rather maintain respect for both parties involved, while protecting privacy and dignity."

SA chimes in on ladies' confrontation

The incident has sparked online debates about relationships, public confrontations, and how to deal with alleged cheating, which has left the internet divided.

Yanda_2k said:

"Climbing all those stairs just to say lemamenalone."

Vanessa kn added:

"I see ladies are asking why she’s apologising. Mina, I get her. What if she was gonna hurt her? Rather avoid all of that by apologising. And yes, it’s the gwala in me typing."

Lwazi Radebe cracked a joke, saying:

"Ma 80s wona few steps nyana she’s already breathless. Talk about determination."

Skits expressed:

"What’s dusting me is that she was genuinely struggling to get up those stairs. She needed you to know!"

Thabisile Thabang Dlamini replied:

"If you ever have to tell another woman to leave your man alone, girl, that ain’t your man. Your man would never put you in that kind of a situation."

UppityAfricanfromSA🇿🇦 shared:

"This happened to me. This man came to sit next to me at a bar and was chatting me up. His girlfriend came to me, saying she’d beat me up if I kept talking to her man. How was I supposed to know? Lol."

User commented:

"I thank God for making me lazy because I will never have the strength to fight for a man!"

More cheating stories by Briefly News

• Briefly News previously reported that a woman had the shock of her life after she found her boyfriend snuggled up in bed with his side chick, who was a friend.
• A woman's heart sank as she saw her boyfriend, hand-in-hand with another woman, strolling through the shopping mall.
• A woman in South Africa was seen in a TikTok video destroying her cheating boyfriend's iPhone.
• One guy in South Africa opened up about his painful experience of being betrayed by his girlfriend.

Source: Briefly News