“This Is Goodbye to Our Home”: SA Woman Relocates With Family Overseas, Shows Moving Process

“This Is Goodbye to Our Home”: SA Woman Relocates With Family Overseas, Shows Moving Process

  • A Cape Town mother documented her challenging journey moving to Abu Dhabi with two young children, while her husband started his new job with Etihad Airways
  • The content creator faced multiple difficulties, including carrying heavy bags plus electronics and jewellery, her son getting stuck in a lift and her daughter falling on an escalator
  • Despite the tears at takeoff and physical exhaustion, the family was reunited after the journey, with the children excitedly greeting their father after time apart
A local woman shared her journey leaving home to relocate overseas.
A woman from Cape Town shared her emotional story of leaving her home, SA, to start anew in Abu Dhabi. Images: @rachaeljoywilliams
Source: Instagram

A South African woman's emotional journey relocating from Cape Town to Abu Dhabi has captured hearts online as she shared the raw reality of emigrating with young children.

Content creator @rachaeljoywilliams documented her challenging travel experience early in May, revealing both the physical and emotional toll of moving countries with her toddler daughter Sierra and son Rio.

Watch the Facebook reel here.

The difficult journey

The move came after her husband, Cam, secured a position with Etihad Airways after eight years with FlySafair. He had left for Abu Dhabi earlier, leaving the mother to manage the international move with their two children on her own. Her video caption painted a vivid picture of the struggle:

"Phew, this was tough - just the amount of stuff I had to carry; my shoulders are numb."

The journey was filled with challenges. She carried all their important documents, electronics, including laptops and cameras, and all her jewellery whilst keeping constant watch over the children. The stress peaked when Rio jumped into a lift that immediately closed and took him away.

"That was a scary 60 seconds. Shame he was SOBBING by the time it came down," she shared.

Having barely slept the night before in fear of oversleeping her alarm, the mother faced multiple obstacles at the airport. She struggled with escalators whilst carrying Sierra and numerous bags, resulting in her daughter falling and badly bruising her shins. By the end of the journey, her body was covered in bruises and scratches from managing everything alone.

A woman shared a video of herself and her kids travelling to Abu Dhabi from a local airport.
A woman from Cape Town shared an emotional video showing what it was like to leave her home and relocate to another country with her kids. Images: @rachaeljoywilliams
Source: Instagram

The business class flight with Etihad provided some relief, though travelling with children meant constant attention. Sierra refused to be alone, making even bathroom visits difficult.

The takeoff proved particularly emotional.

"I started crying a few tears on takeoff as I haven't allowed myself much time to cry/be sad up to this moment," she revealed. Having suppressed her emotions whilst packing up their life in South Africa, the reality hit hard as the plane left: "This is goodbye. Knowing we probably won't live in SA again, especially not in the near future, is sad."

Reflecting on her experience, she offered practical advice for others facing similar journeys. She strongly recommended getting a stroller for toddlers instead of carrying them, suggesting brighter clothing or even considering a child leash to prevent them from getting lost. Her key lesson: travel with as few bags as possible.

Family reunion has Mzansi emotional

Comments poured in supporting the brave mother.

@lizamari.dp celebrated:

"👏👏 you made it and you're reunited!"

@the_louise_young praised:

"You did so beautifully, Mum! That reunion was so precious ❤️❤️❤️ Happy settling in 🙌"

@caitlindarlings got emotional:

"Sobbing at the end of the video, too beautiful. So happy for you all to be together again, and I hope that this new journey as a family is the best one yet ❤️"

@nicole_dubber acknowledged:

"Well done! 🙌🏻 Just watching your videos, you can tell you're such a great mum and you've done an incredible job ❤️"

@celesteinfullbloom noted:

"All worth it for that last moment on the reel! Well done on getting through it all. 💕"

@mekayla_carnerio related:

"Well done, Momma! 🙌 I know how hard it is travelling solo with 2 kids, I did it from SA to New Zealand. Absolutely exhausting and traumatising 😂 but just makes us realise we are super women🥰!"

Other South Africans overseas

  • Briefly News reported on a Cape Town woman celebrating her new apartment in New York with its industrial look, marking a major milestone in her international journey.
  • A South African mother made a heartbreaking plea for help to escape the Netherlands, where she's prevented from returning home due to a travel ban obtained by her ex-partner.
  • A SA man shared a vlog of his luxurious apartment in Shanghai, China, with viewers intrigued by his commentary about the rapidly built city.

Source: Briefly News

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Nerissa Naidoo (Human Interest Editor) Nerissa Naidoo is a writer and editor with seven years of experience. Currently, she is a human interest writer at Briefly News and joined the publication in 2024. She began her career contributing to Morning Lazziness and later joined Featherpen.org. As a TUW ghostwriter, she focused on non-fiction, while her editorial roles at National Today and Entail.ai honed her skills in content accuracy and expert-driven editing. You can reach her at nerissa.naidoo@briefly.co.za